Homegrown Gal

Meatless Mondays

2012-01-23T17:47:00.007-05:00

Last fall the Hubby and I decided that we should start doing meatless meals for dinner on Mondays, hence "Meatless Mondays". We intentionally pick meals that are meatless and think about those that go with little or without and to think about the impact that eating meat has on society. (The Hubby has been reading one of my favorite books, Animal, Vegetable, Miracle, the past few months and I think it's encouraged him even more... not that the book is about being a vegetarian, it's about eating locally, but I don't think we'll be making our own sausage anytime soon either.) Even though we have given up meat here and there, we have not given up on flavor! We've had some amazing meals! However, we have gone a few nights with a little less (one night we made a recipe that was advertised as a side dish... and that was it).

Here's a few of our "Meatless Monday" favorites:

Black Beans and Rice

We heat up a can of black beans and then spice them up ourselves with some onion, green peppers, and Cuban spices. We also make a pot of rice. Toss the two together and add some fresh cut onion. Enjoy!

Baked Potatoes

Rinse potatoes, while they are still wet sprinkle with salt, pepper, and garlic. Bake in the oven at 450 degrees for 45 minutes to an hour. When they are done, add your favorite toppings. We like butter, cheese, and green onions.

Lentil Soup and Cornbread

The Hubby got me a great book for Christmas, The Cornbread Gospels. There's lots of yummy recipes, and the first one we tried was the lentil and spinach soup. It was wonderful!

Christmas 2011

2012-01-11T14:43:00.006-05:00

We were very blessed and had a wonderful Advent and Christmas season! Here's a few photos for you to enjoy.

Some of the decorations:

Christmas Morning at Grandma and Grandpa's house:Little Man's favorite toy from Santa (because he loves trying to play with the one I use to clean the toilets):Talking on his new cell phone from Aunt Anna and (soon to be) Uncle Andrew:

Playing the piano with (soon to be) Uncle Andrew:

And here's our Christmas card photo this year:

We hope you and your family had a wonderful Advent and Christmas too! From our family to yours, happy holidays!

New Shoes

2011-12-10T11:00:00.002-05:00

Before I ran the Superhero 5K, I had decided that if I ran the whole thing I would buy a new pair of running shoes as a reward. I was starting to need a new pair and thought this was a great way to earn them. I talked it over with the Hubby and he liked the idea so much he let me put the money aside so it would be there when I was ready, as a physical reminder. I took the cash and put it in an envelope and stuck it in the drawer I keep my headphones. Every time I went to get my headphones to go run I would see it.Well, I ran every step of the Superhero 5K, but had to stop a few times for a little breather. It was a very hilly run (what was I thinking, it was in the mountains after all)! I asked the Hubby if he thought I earned them and said since I stopped, I didn't (but was very proud of me for running every step). I agreed. I really wanted to EARN the shoes by running a full 5K, no stopping.

I continued to run the Couch to 5K plan. I looked for future 5Ks. I was determined.

We went to the beach for Thanksgiving and thought, "this is as flat as it's going to get, so maybe I should go for a 5K while I'm here." And I did. The Saturday after Thanksgiving I set the Nike+ app to run a 5K. It was an out and back run on the sidewalk. The Hubby went too, but mostly did his own thing, running with me part of the way. Off I went. I got a bit warm, but kept going. I jammed out to Ke$ha, Black Eyed Peas, Avett Brothers, and the list goes on. I slowed down, and kept running. I sped up, and kept running. I passed other runners, walkers, kids on their bikes, and kept running. Half way. I turned around and kept running. The Hubby was there beside me, I kept running. I looked down and the Nike+ app had somehow gotten paused. I kept running. I ran past the spot I started. Nike+ didn't say I had finished a 5K. I kept running. And then I stopped. I was so mad at Nike+! I wanted it logged for all the world to see! I said a few colorful words. And then I gave up. I started walking. I did it. I ran a 5K. I had EARNED my shoes big time!

After I bought my shoes I thought I might not want to continue to run as much, but I've kept running. I try to go when Little Man is at preschool because the weather is getting colder. I've reconciled with Nike+ and we are friends again. I want to run another 5K so it will be officially logged, but I'm at peace with it.

Aren't my new shoes pretty? I love the lavender color! And they fit like a glove. Totally worth every step and every penny!
Even the insides are pretty!

Here's to many more 5Ks!

Miles of Files

2011-12-06T09:27:00.000-05:00

We all have one... a filing cabinate packed full and we don't know what's in it. I broke down and went through ours! I got out the handy dandy label maker, bought some new hanging folders and file folders (ours were pretty ragged) at good ol' Office Depot and set to work. It helped that the Hubby went through the files a few months ago and pulled out a few really REALLY old things and burned them (we really need a shredder!). But things were still un orderly and I do enjoy some alphabetizing.

Here is the before of one of the neater cabinets (why there is a ziplock bag in there, I don't know):
And here is the after (so much better... it sooths my soul!)Love me that handy dandy label maker!

Sharing In The Journey

2011-12-03T09:58:00.000-05:00

Last week I went to a retreat for youth and family ministry workers. It was relaxing and informative. Jim LaDoux from Vibrant Faith Ministries was there. He had a lot of great things to say to help shape our ministry settings. One of the things I thought about while I was there was starting a blog focused on faith formation in the home, a more "professional" blog you could say. While I thought this was a great idea, I kept having hesitations. I will have to blog on a regular basis being the main one. But it's something I think the members of my church will benefit from, and who knows, maybe others will find it and it will help them. As I was driving away I was thinking of names for this new blog. What would I call it? I needed a title, something to get me started and set my focus. I stopped at a stoplight and the car's license plate in front of me was a North Carolina Blue Ridge Parkway tag and said, "Share the Journey." That's it! I scribbled it down on the back of a receipt and hoped it hadn't been taken on Blogger yet. When I got home, I looked it up. It had been taken. Bummer! I begin playing around with the wording and "Sharing in the Journey" was formed. Our faith life is a journey, all our lives woven together are one journey and we are sharing in that journey together. It's still a work in progress, but I invite you to check it out. It will be a place of personal faith musings, tips and ideas for parents and families, and whatever else I think up. I'd love your feedback, comments, and prayers as I embark on this new adventure in my ministry.

www.sharinginthejourney.blogspot.com

iPad Giveaway

2011-12-02T22:55:00.002-05:00

Whoa! I wish I could give away an iPad, but for now I just have to enter to win one... and you can too. Over at Little Chief Honeybee (a pretty cool blog) they are giving away a white 16GB iPad. Don't ask me how I came across this giveaway, but I did. Check it out for yourself and enter to win!

Office To Go

2011-12-02T20:46:00.003-05:00

As you know I've been organizing and re-organizing lately. Here is a glimpse of what I've been up too. After looking at this blog and this blog I decided that I need a portable office too. My friend Griet sales Thirty One, so I ordered up a bag and got busy! (Isn't it pretty?!)

It even holds my computer. (That's my computer in the cute apple print pouch... get it an apple for my Apple... get it... I crack myself up!)I like the side pockets for smaller things like cards I like to send to my volunteers.Here you can see all my organization at it's best! A folder for each ministry team and still have room for the extras!
I found the open top plastic file folder at Office Depot for like $7. I found some pretty folders at Target (my favorite store). And I borrowed the handy dandy label maker I bought for church (my new favorite toy!). Isn't it pretty?! And so organized! I guess now I have to do some real work.

Fall Homestyle Cook'n

2011-11-15T20:58:00.009-05:00

We have really enjoyed our CSA (Community Supported Agriculture) this fall. We've stocked up on some wonderful sweet potatoes and butternut squash, frozen a few gallons of green beans, and enjoyed a few more exotic items like kale. We got a yummy "cooking" pumpkin (who knew there were different kinds of pumpkins?).

After letting it decorate our front porch for a few weeks, I finally cooked it up. I made a delicious pumpkin pie (pictured above with homemade whipped cream) and some wonderful pumpkin chocolate chip muffins.

I had about 2 cups or so of pumpkin left over and froze it for a later date. Here's how I cook pumpkin for cooking:

Cut pumpkin in half, scoop out the seeds (and toss or use for roasting) and place on a cookie sheet with a little water. Place in the a 350 degrees oven for about 45 minute or until pumpkin is done (will be soft like a squash). Take the pumpkin out of the oven. After it has cooled, scoop the flesh out. If it seems stringy, place in a food processor or blender and blend.

If you wish to roast the seeds while cooking the pumpkin....

Wash seeds and dry. Place seeds on a cookie sheet and sprinkle salt on them. Place in the oven with the pumpkin and roast for about 20 or 30 minutes. Let cool and enjoy!

Recently we also roasted a chicken for dinner. We used some garlic, onions, and a salt and pepper rub. I had only roasted a whole chicken once before and didn't know what I was doing. I cut all the skin off and only used garlic to season it. It turned out to be really yummy, but I thought I should do a little research this time. I learned to roast a chicken via the inter-webs.

The next day I used the bones and skin to make chicken broth. I used the left over chicken to make a chicken pot pie from scratch. I need to work on my pastry dough, but over all it was a success. We've had tons of left overs and Little Man and I have enjoyed them for lunch.

Our church has a pumpkin patch and this was our first year to experience it. Here's a few pictures of my little pumpkin for you to enjoy!

Happy Fall Y'all!

Let's get Organized!

2011-11-09T15:18:00.004-05:00

I have always enjoyed an organized space. In fact some might call me a little OCD about it, but I don't think I'm too that extreme... yet anyway. I've come across some great organizing helps on Pinterest and have fallen in love with this blog! I've also had this book for a while and finally broke the spin open the other day. I'm get'n organized!

As you can see, I love piles! I feel like if I put things in a pile at lest things look a little less scattered. But now I'm getting my piles organized. I went through our book shelf in the kitchen and purged cookbooks and craft books. I am cleaning out the clutter and making room to get rid of the piles!

I haven't started the crafting purge yet, I'm building myself up for it. I moved all my random projects to boxes and put everything I need for each project in the same box so it's there when I go to pick something up and start working on it again.
I've de-cluttered the "catch all" drawer in the kitchen and created an "office supplies" drawer and a "catch all" drawer that's a little less messy... now we can actually find a flash light if the power goes out or the iPhone cords when we need them!
In the next few weeks I'll be posting more about my organization projects. Maybe my little bit of OCD will help you get organized too.

How do you stay organized? What are your tips and tricks?

Friday Five: Friends

2011-11-04T08:04:00.003-04:00

For today's Friday Five please tell us 5 things you like to do with friends. Are they local - do you hit a favorite coffee shop or nail salon? What about the friends who come in from out of town? Do you have a restaurant or museum you like to show off?

1. COFFEE!!!

I love to meet up at coffee shops with friends... especially Sbux! I love to savor something warm and sweet while catching up with friends. I love the comfy chairs that coffee shops usually have to sit in. I love the sounds of the espresso machine in the background and the chatter of other people.

2. Walking

I also enjoy a good walk some place pretty. When RebaSo was here last week we went for two good walks (one with some running!) at some pretty parks. Whenever we are together we try to exercise.

3. Mani/Pedi

I also love a Mani/Pedi session! Pampering (with a carmel latte) after a nice walk is the way to go!

4.Sex And The City

Ok, this one is kind of something that RebaSo and I love to do together. But we always have to watch some SATC!!! It's one of our most favorite TV shows ever! And the first movie was great... the second one, not so much (but we still watch it).

Recently RebaSo has gotten the Hubby and I hooked on Fringe. So the last week when she was here, we bought season 3 to catch up together. Joshua Jackson will forever be known as Pacey (from Dawson's Creek) so whenever we talk about the show and his character we refer to him as Pacey. (I think it gets on the Hubby's nerves.)

5. Craft

I love to craft and I love to craft with friends! RebaSo got me cross stitching last year and of course I still enjoy a good knitting session.

21 Minutes

2011-11-02T14:34:00.003-04:00

Today on Tuesday, November 2, 2011 at approximately 10am, I completed 21 minutes of actual jogging. This is the longest I have jogged consecutively in my life. Needless to say, I'm very proud of myself!

I've been using the Couch to 5K app on my iPhone to train for the upcoming superhero 5K in Asheville. The goal is to build up your endurance and time spent running over 9 weeks. I'm currently on week 5. "But V, you've been out pounding the pavement for more than 5 weeks. How can you only be on week 5?" I know, I know... I've been stretching things out a bit. I'll re-do a work out for a few times till I feel comfortable to move on. I've been on week 5, day 2 for about 3 weeks now. It takes you from an 5 minute warm up, 8 minute run, 5 minute walk, 8 minute run, 5 minute cool down right to a 5 minute warm up, 20 minute run, 5 minute cool down. That's crazy! No move it up a few minutes to a 10 minute run with a break? NOPE! But today, after the first 8 minute run I just kept on going, right through the 5 minute walk and on through the next 8 minute run for a total of 21 minutes! And dare I say... I felt like I could have gone even more! All of this was after a week long break of a great visit from RebaSo and a busy weekend.

I've also been using the Nike+ app on my iPhone to track my milage and pace. Today of all days, the GPS didn't work. So it said I only ran .3 miles. But I've tracked it myself and I actually did about 2.25 miles in about 38 minutes. I may be slow, but at lest I'm out there doing it. (That's what I keep telling myself when I get bummed about my pace.)

Bring on that superhero 5K!

le Tour de Femme 2011

2011-11-02T07:44:00.002-04:00

On October 8 I rode 31.2 miles and raised $260 to fight against cancer. It was a beautiful day for a ride: sunny, cool weather, and lots of fun!

The first half of the ride I rode with a few ladies from around the area. We chatted a bit and took our time getting to the rest stop. The stop was at a horse farm, a beautiful place in the country. They provided lots of yummy energizing foods and drinks and motivational signs. After a few snacks, I rode away with the sounds of cowbells ringing in my ears (volunteers had them to motivate you along your way). When I got back to the cycle shop, the Hubby and Little Man were waiting for me. We enjoyed some yummy lunch provided by local restaurants. Then we went back to the hotel for a shower and packed up. On our way out of town we stopped by Great Harvest for myfree loaf of bread (provided to all riders)!

For my training I would ride 2 to 3 days a week. I found a few new routs and enjoyed a few longer rides too. Much thanks to the hubby for watching Little Man while I trained for this ride.

I'm looking forward to the ride again next year!

One Year

2011-11-01T08:29:00.000-04:00

Happy Halloween

2011-10-31T18:52:00.005-04:00

How to create a jack-o-lantern:

Pick out a pumpkin...
Cut the top off and scoop out the insides...Carve the pumpkin with a scary face...

Set it on your front porch and light a candle inside...Happy Halloween!

First Birthday

2011-10-31T15:30:00.005-04:00

Little Man turned one year old on September 26 and the following weekend we celebrated with friends and family with a "Vintage Toy" themed party. Here's a few pictures from the fun!

Happy birthday Little Man!

Pizza and a Movie

2011-08-24T09:37:00.010-04:00

A few years ago I read a Animal, Vegetable, Miracle by Barbara Kingsolver. It chronicles the year Kingsolver and her family spent eating locally. One of the things that stood out to me was how food and meals where a family affair. They garden together, preserve together, cook together and eat together. She tells about how every Friday night is family movie night. They make pizzas together, everyone deciding what toppings they want, and rent a movie or two. When I read this, I fell in love with the idea. Now that Little Man is here, I told the Hubby that I wanted to start this tradition in our family. We can't do this every week, things do come up, but it is something we have started to try to do on a bi-monthly basis. We've also been experimenting with flavors and toppings. This past week we watched The King's Speech (great movie!) and made a taco pizza with left over taco meat, salsa, cheddar cheese, and onions. It was wonderful! We've also made a summer veggie pizza with things from the garden: squash, green peppers and tomatoes. I've also been using pesto instead of traditional red sauce, homemade of course! Here a few recipes to get you started making your own Friday night pizzas:

Uncle John's Pizza Dough

3 1/2 cups flour

1 cup HOT water

1 pkg yeast

2-3 Tbsp olive oil

1 tsp Kosher salt

Prime the yeast in the HOT water for about 5 minutes. In a stand mixer, start with 3 cups of flour (1/2 cup is added as needed). Add the hot water/yeast mix and turn it out. Let the mixer do the work, you cannot over knead at this point.When the dough has formed and has a shinny coating take it out and set in a bowl. Coat with olive oil and let rise for 2 hours. After 2 hours, punch down the dough and knead very little. Divide the dough into pizza portions. (You can freeze the dough at this point to use later. ) Refrigerate until ready to use.

Presto Pesto

2 cups basil, packed

1/2 cup fresh grated Romano or Parmesan cheese

1/2 cup olive oil

1/3 cup pine nuts

2 med minced garlic cloves

Combine basil, cheese, pine nuts and garlic cloves in a blinder or food processor. Turn it on and while running, slowly pore in the oil. Presto! Pesto!
Presto! Pesto...
Pepperoni Pizza
Summer Veggie ready to go in the oven...
Taco Pizza...
Summer Veggie...
What traditions have you started as a family?

Goals

2011-08-23T12:49:00.003-04:00

I am setting two fitness goals for myself. I am hoping these goals will help me with my weight loss.

Goal 1: le Tour de Femme Bike Ride

Two years ago I participated in the le Tour de Femme bike ride and rode 60 miles and raised over $1000 to help fight cancer. Last year I had just had Little Man. This year I went back and forth about participating. I have officially made the decision to that I will ride again. Although I will go for the 30 mile ride since I haven't been on my bike since I got pregers. After pumping my tires, changing a tube, and making sure it was ready to ride, I hoped on my bike for the first time in a LONG time the other night. I went for a nice little ride. It felt so good to be back on my bike. My first goal is to ride 30 miles on October 8 in memory of my Nana and her battle with lung cancer.

Goal 2: Superhero 5K

I will attempt to run a 5K. I've "run" 5Ks in the past... meaning I've jogged a few steps and walked most of it. But for the first time I'm going to attempt actual RUNNING of a 5K... dressed as a superhero. Yup. Asheville Pizza and Brewing Company (the brew and view to locals) has an annual superhero 5K. A friend told us about it and how much fun he had last year. Like we need an excuse to go to Asheville! The Hubby has been obsessed with coming up with costume ideas too. My second goal is to actually run a 5K on November 12 dressed as a superhero.

Local is the new black!

2011-08-18T13:12:00.005-04:00

When we were in the mountains a few weeks ago, the Hubby saw a shirt that said "Local is the new black!" and it's so true. It seems everywhere you go restaurants are all about using locally grown produce and grass fed meats. And we are too.

This summer we subscribed to a local CSA (Community Supported Agriculture) at the Bush-n-Vine. We pay an amount at the beginning of the summer and the farmer gets money up front to help throughout the growing season. If it's a good season, we get more food. If it's not a good season, we don't get as much and the farmer doesn't loose out. Each week we get a basket of produce grown right down the road from us, and it's been a GOOD summer! We've gotten blueberries, raspberries, strawberries, tomatoes, squash, corn, okra, plums, peaches, watermelon, cantaloupe, eggplant, beans, peas, peppers, and more. Here's a picture of this week's loot:

And more recently we found a similar system for meat. A local gas station (this is not your average gas station.... it's ooooooo-ber nice!) has a butcher in the back. We've gotten meats from them before and really enjoy their selection. They recently started selling "family plans," which offer several different kinds of meats wrapped and ready to freeze. All the meats are local and usually grass fed. We decided to give it a try. We bought their smallest plan which included a whole chicken, chicken breasts, ground stake, a meatloaf, pot roast and one or two more things. Here's a picture of our first tray:

With the CSA baskets and our little garden, we've eaten a lot more fruits and veggies this summer. We had never cooked with eggplant before and we made two delicious recipes: eggplant Parmesan and an eggplant tomato casserole. YUM! All this fresh food means Little Man has been eating healthier too. We've done some jar foods here and there, but for the most part we've given him actual homegrown food. While the Hubby and I haven't always had the best eating habits, we want to teach Little Man good eating habits starting now while he's still small. Hopefully we are teaching ourselves better habits as we teach him.

Friday Five: Decisions

2011-07-29T21:26:00.003-04:00

A decision from history: There is a chair that still sits in the Assembly Room of the Pennsylvania State House (Independence Hall). Legend has it that it was George Washington's chair, the back carved with a half sun. Benjamin Franklin would look at it and wonder whether it was a rising or a setting sun. Eventually Franklin decided it was the hopeful symbol of the rising sun, a sign of the future of our new republic.

How do you decide? Check out the following pairs and tell which one of each appeals to you most:

1) Sunrise or Sunset

Sunset... I'm not up to see the sunrise.

2) To the Mountains or To the Beach

Mountains!!!

3) Coffee or Tea

Coffee

4) Advent or Lent

Advent

5) "Raindrops on Roses" or "Whiskers on Kittens"

Raindrops on Roses

BONUS: Tell more about one of the pairs. Why did you choose it? Difficult or easy choice? A story from your own experience?

The number two answer is simple. I love the mountains! I am not a beach person. I do not like the sand or the salty air. I prefer the crisp morning fog of the mountains in fall. I love the snow in winter. I am just a mountain gal through and through.

Thank you Dell

2011-07-28T17:21:00.004-04:00

I'm THAT girl. A Mac girl. Our little family made the switch over to Mac last year with a nice new desktop. The Hubby's old computer had got a virus or two and it was just time. After hearing about how wonderful the world of Mac is from my uncle and a friends, we decided to take the plunge. And we haven't looked back! Then in January I got a Macbook to replace my old laptop. I was thinking I might use it to work from home more with the old job, then things happened and now I am at the new job, which said they would buy me a new laptop. I didn't want to be THAT girl, so I went with a Dell. I have owned two Dells before and for the most part, knew they were good computers. I tried to find the closest thing to a Mac that Dell makes, a Vostro. It's a decent computer... nice small size and the mouse is similar to a Mac's. But over the past 7 months I had forgotten about the craziness that is Windows.

Ugh.

After setting up the computer and only using it a few days, Windows already had to make over 20 updates! So, I let it do it's thing and went to bed. I don't know what happened, but the next day I turned it on and I had to reload Windows. I finally got it up and running again, but it just seemed slow. I decided then and there I had a perfectly good computer (my lovely Macbook Pro) and would use it for home and work, even if it did make me THAT girl. I would save the church money on a new computer. Yay me!

After scrounging the Dell website to find their costumer service number, I finally found it and called. Everything seemed easy enough. I explained the problem. I explained how I just did not want the computer, it had been less than 30 days, and I wanted to return it. No, I did not want to reset it to the manufacture settings and keep it. I wanted to return it. I was told I would receive a confirmation number for my return in 24 to 48 hours and that UPS would come and pick up the computer. 24 hours passed. 48 hours passed. No confirmation number. So I called them back.

Did you ever watch an episode of Out Sourced on NBC last year? Well, my phone call could easily have been the inspiration for that show.

Seriously.

After explaining the problem and being transfered 4 times I finally had this conversation...

Dell: Hello! My name is Charles. How may I help you?

Me: I am trying to return a computer.

Dell: Ok, let me look over your order quickly. Where are you calling from today?

Me: South Carolina.

Dell: Oh nice. One of my first callers today was from North Carolina. How is the weather there?

Me: Hot.

Dell: Yes, they also said it was hot. My girlfriend is from North Carolina. She said it was hot too.

Me: uh huh.

Dell: Ok mam, I see you are trying to return a computer, is that correct?

Me: Yes.

Dell: Ok, what I'm going to do is email you a label to print out. You will tape it on the box and then you can have UPS come pick up the box or you can take it to a UPS store. Which would you like?

Me: I'll take it to a UPS store.

Dell: Ok, I'm waiting for the UPS label to be sent to you. Please let me know when you get it.

Me: ......

Dell: Carolina, that also reminds me of James Taylor. (Starts to sing)... In my mind I'm going to Carolina.

Me: .......

Dell: What time is it there?

Me: 5:30

Dell: Yes, it's about that time here too.

Me: .......

Dell: Do you have the label yet?

Me: No.

Dell: Ok..... (Singing)... In my mind I'm going to Carolina....

Me: .......

5 minutes later

Me: Ok, I got it.

Dell: Great! Now let me give you some other information you will need to put on the box.

Me: (thinking) ReAlLy?! You couldn't have given that to me in the 5 minutes I was waiting for the label?!..... OK.

After giving me the info...

Dell: Ok, well have a great day in Carolina. Thanks for calling.

Me: Yup. Thanks.

Thank you Dell. You made me realize that I am a true Mac girl and wont be going back to the PC world.

Thank you.

My Journey Towards a Healthy Weight

2011-07-27T18:00:00.002-04:00

As you can see, I've created a new page. Here you will find my journey towards a healthy weight and maintaining a healthy lifestyle. Now more than ever I want to get the weight off. I've always been a "big gal" and "can carry my weight well," but I want to be healthy for my son! So this time I will do it, even if it takes me 10 years. I will achieve a healthy weight! I hope you will follow me on my journey, encourage me along the way, and even offer to kick my butt back into gear if I start to fall.

Getting Started... Again

2011-07-14T22:45:00.003-04:00

I have a wonderful hubby! A very supportive hubby! The following is a recent blog post he made on this SparkPeople page. We have started to re-focus on healthy living with the food we eat and how we move our bodies. I will be posting soon about my own weight loss journey (I'm thinking of devoting a whole page to it). But for now, here is what the hubby has to say. Thanks Hubby for your inspiration!

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

This past year has been filled with change for our family. First, my wife and I have been blessed with a healthy baby boy! He keeps us laughing and it has been amazing to watch him grow and develop as we have also been growing as parents and adults. Part of that growth has been a reassessment of what is important to us as parents and as a family and how we can life our lives to better reflect those priorities. Healthy family life is right at the top and that just wasn't working with both of working full time jobs. My wife was fortunate enough to take our son to work with her, but even with that luxury there didn't seem to be enough hours in the day to ensure that we were eating healthy, getting proper exercise, taking mental breaks, keeping the house clean in addition to making sure our son was safe and loved at all times. As a result, we were both over stressed, tired, and were gaining weight.

My wife then made a great sacrifice for our family. She found a part-time work from home position. Career wise, this was a big sacrifice and since she works in the church and since this was a change in denominations, there were a lot of emotions involved. But so far, this has been a wonderful change for her and for our family. The new church has been extremely welcoming and very accommodating to families. Our son is getting great care at home with his mom during the week and will be starting part time day school in the fall to get interactions with other kids as well as giving Mom some time to herself.

With this change, we've been eating much healthier! We prepare home cooked meals nearly every weeknight - using lots of veggies from our garden as well as our CSA pick-ups! And, we're finally finding time to get to the gym! Stress levels are way down and weight is starting to drop for both of us. It's taken us nearly a year to get things "figured out", but we feel that we are on the right path to healthy living.

In more specific terms, I'm starting back up with a running plan with a long term goal of running a 1/2 marathon next May. Short term, I've started the Couch to 10k program with a cool little iPhone App. Unfortunately, I'm only a week into the program and already have some tendinitis (self diagnosed) in my right thigh. It's getting better, and the training plan is very gradual so I'll proceed with caution. The plan includes 3 days a week of a run/walk routine. It started with 30 sec. running with 4.5 min walking intervals repeating for a total of 45 minutes. Next week its 1 min walk / 4 min run for a total of 50 minutes. In the past, I've jumped up to later weeks in these programs, but this time I'm going to take my time and work my way into shape slowly and hopefully avoid some of these nagging injuries along the way.

Cookies 101

2011-07-12T18:52:00.006-04:00

I love cookies! I really love sugar cookies with icing... I love the way they taste, I love the way the look, and I love attempting something new. I've been eyeing this blog for a little while and have really wanted to attempt my hand at royal icing. I watched a ton of YouTube videos and thought, "Ok, I'm gonna do this!" So I did.

I used this cookie dough recipe (which is amazing!) and this icing recipe. I didn't have any pastry bags or icing tips, so I used a ziplock bag and sniped the corner off (I saw this done on one of the many YouTube videos). The Hubby gave me some cute dinosaur cookie cutters awhile ago, so I used those. These may not look as professional as Bridget's cookies (BakeAt350 blog) but I think they turned out pretty cute.

Here are the cookies being outlined:
And here they are being flooded (a new term I've learned, which means to fill in the outline):
Here's my cookie filled counter top:
And the finished product:

Isn't he cute?!

Well, it's not the most professional looking, but they sure did taste good! And the Hubby didn't mind help "cleaning up" the broken cookies! More attempts at cookie making and decorating to come!

How I Became a Part Time SAHM

2011-07-09T16:39:00.006-04:00

Let me start off by saying I never thought I would want to be a "SAHM" (Stay At Home Mom). There are a lot of things I have done as a parent that I thought I wouldn't do. But you never know what you will do as a parent until you have your own child. Since returning from my (hard to get) maternity leave, I have felt the pressure to do it all and be it all: the super mom who breastfed and cloth diapered, the super wife who kept a clean house and cooked dinner and still feel called to church work. I was loosing my sanity. Partly because I wanted it do it all, but also because of the way I was being treated by a few congregational members in a position of power. Going all the way back to the maternity leave discussions, I feel like my Little Man and I have been a burden upon council. I had been graciously able to bring Little Man with me to work during the week (which had gone from 4 days to 2 days since he had become more active), where he was not a problem and the other staff members enjoyed seeing him, but as of June 1 I would not be allowed to do so and was not told why. The Hubby and I began to talk about our options about the same time a friend told me of a few job openings in the area. So, in order to keep my sanity, spend more time with Little Man, and to continue to enjoy my call to ministry, I quit my full time job as a Director of Youth and Family Ministry at Grace Lutheran Church and have taken a part time position as the Director of Christian Education at Grace Presbyterian Church. It was a very hard decision to make, one with many tears and many prayers, but both the Hubby and I feel it was the best decision for our family.

Changing jobs also meant changing churches and denominations for worship for our family. I'm a life long Lutheran (ELCA) and the Hubby pretty much is too. Now we are at a wonderful Presbyterian church (PC USA). Theology wise, there's not much difference. Worship wise, there is a big difference! I'm getting more and more use to it as we go and the people and Pastor make it worth the switch. Both the Hubby and I really like the Pastor's sermons and teaching. Her thoughts and theology are right on with ours.

Before I even turned in my resume, we attended the church to see if they would be "family friendly" and if we would enjoy it as our place of worship. We were both impressed with the family friendliness of the place: a bookshelf with children's books when you first walk in to the sanctuary, children's pages to color on, a wonderful nursery, and also a corner of the sanctuary has rocking chairs and a basket with toys. You can still stay in worship even if you have an ornery baby. It's a pretty new congregation, about 20 years old. The building was originally going to be a fellowship hall and classrooms, but then the recession hit and they haven't had the money to build a more formal sanctuary. So the same space is used for worship and fellowship events. There is only one office for the pastor and the administrator. Which means.... I work from home! And when I do have to be at the church, they provide child care or Little Man can play with toys from the toy box in the Pastor's office.

Yup, I work from home. Besides being present for Sunday morning, events, and meetings, I'm given a computer (a NEW computer... I just ordered it last week) and I work from home... or Starbucks. That's another interesting thing about this church, their staffing. Besides the pastor and the administrator, everyone else is part time. They have 2 Co-Directors of Music, a Youth Director, a Nursery Director, a Preschool Director, and me, the Director of Christian Education.

So far this has been a busy summer! I started the new job on June 15 with Vacation Bible School starting June 20. I ended the old job on June 30, ending with Vacation Bible School. Yup, 2 weeks of VBS back to back! I'm still fulfilling a few obligations at the old church (High School Servant Trip and Campfirmation) and the new church is gracious to let me do so. If fact, they said that was one of the reasons they wanted me, my dedication to seeing things through. (I see it as my inability to say no and that I want to please everyone... not necessarily a good quality to possess).

This past week was the first official week of only working ONE job. For the first time I did not feel stressed about cleaning my house, grocery shopping, taking care of Little Man, and working. When I was working full-time I always felt like I was rushed to do everything or couldn't get it all done. I also felt rushed in the mornings to get Little Man and myself ready to go to the church office. This past week I felt free to go for a walk, toss in some laundry, get the two of us ready for the day, and then start some work. No more packing a diaper bag every morning and double checking that I have everything. No more rushing to get out the door on time. No more grabbing whatever for breakfast, if I grab anything at all. Yes, I still have obligations and meetings, but not as many.

I'm excited about my new job. I'm excited about being able to be at home more with my child. But most import, I'm happy to be at a place where my child is welcomed and encouraged to come and be a part of the church family.

Under Construction

2011-07-06T22:44:00.002-04:00

As you can see I'm making some changes around here. I've decided on a new name, something that suits me a little better for this stage in my life. I thought about making a big switch to a new URL and everything, but for now will stick with what I got. I'd love to hear some feed back on what you think.

The Title

Homegrown Gal came to me while I was staring at the wild blackberries in my back yard. I've been doing a lot of gardening this summer, mostly as my way of free therapy (more on that later). When I think of something as homegrown, I think of something being close to the earth. I think of something that is cared for tenderly. I think of something that is nurtured with love. And that is how I want my life to be thought of: close to the earth, cared for tenderly, and nurtured with love. Hopefully I live this out in my life and not just a blog title.

Side Bar

I'm thinking of getting rid of a few things, simplifying the blog. If there are things you want me to keep on my side bar, let me know. If you are a friend and still want me to keep a link to your blog up, leave me a message.

Pages

Over the next few weeks I'll be adding a few new pages to the blog. I hope you will find them interesting.

Labels

I will be cleaning out the labels and picking just a few to highlight. I want you to be able to find your way through all my ramblings a little easier. I will focus on gardening, crafting (which will include knitting and sewing), cooking, travel, family, and of course Little Man.

Thanks for sticking with me through the years. I hope to start blogging more regularly and hope these changes will help me to do so.

Cook'n in the Kitchen

2011-06-10T16:50:00.002-04:00

Little Man loves to be wherever we are... including the kitchen! When he was itty bitty, we would strap him into his high chair and drag it into the kitchen while we were cooking dinner, baking, etc. Now, I just plop him in the floor and let him be. The other day I gave him a wooden spoon and he went to town. We are training him early to help with dinner!

First Trip to the Pool

2011-06-03T22:39:00.004-04:00

Coulwood Community Pool is open for the summer and Little Man had his first trip last weekend! This was his first time in a pool and for the most part he enjoyed it. It took a little while to get used to, but soon he was enjoying the water and his new toys from Mimi! We can't make to make more trips to the pool to cool off this summer!

Memorial Day Weekend

2011-06-03T17:14:00.007-04:00

Memorial Weekend we worked hard! We weeded, mulched, planted, built boxes, went swimming, ate good food, spent time with friends and family... oh ya, and did a little relaxation. Here's a few pictures from the weekend...

New cushions for the back porch:

Fuchsia's in the hanging baskets (the humming birds love these):

Our mulch pile:

Our new side box (Michael built it):

We hope you had a wonderful Memorial weekend! Bring on summer!

Six Months

2011-03-26T12:25:00.005-04:00

Happy New Year.... a month late.

2011-02-03T15:51:00.005-05:00

I can't believe it's a new year! I can't believe a month of it has already past! I can't believe I have a four month old!

Time sure has flew by. Christmas was wonderful and full of fun with a baby. We went to Wilmington and celebrated Christmas with my dad's side of the family. I hadn't seen my Opa since my wedding! That is crazy too long to go. But it was wonderful spent together. His sister, my great aunt, (who lives in California) even flew out to visit. We rented a big beach house and we all cooked, ate, played games, shared gifts, watched movies, knit, took walks, and watched it snow. That's right! It snowed at the beach! We had a wonderful visit. The next weekend was spent on my DH's side of the family. It was a great visit too! We ate, played games, shared gifts, watched movies, knit, took walks all over again. By the time it was all done, we were a bit ready to be back in our own home and our own bed.

And so, it's a new year. Another year has come and gone. And my have things changed! Our time, money, and priorities have totally been reorganized because of this new being in our life. He has made me really evaluate what is important, what is worth my time and energy, and more importantly what is not. I've always been one for new year's resolutions, but this year I'm not really into them. Maybe because I know that I wont stick to half of them anyway. I think about this blog and the title. Out of the Ordinary. I do want to live an extraordinary life. I want to make a difference in the world. I want to help CHANGE the world! So in place of my new year's resolution, I'm going to embrace some new life resolutions. Things I have always know and even have tried to do, now I'm going to embrace them and live them out extraordinarily!

Eat Less, Move More

Think Globally, Live Locally (Meaning I will try to shop, eat, etc locally.)

Think more positively and share good will with others.

So many things fall I want to do/be fall into these tree categories. I want to lose weight... eat less, move more. I want to create change in the economy... think globally, live locally. I want to enjoy my job more... think more positively. Hopefully this new mindset will stick... at lest for a little while.

I hope your new year's resolutions bring about change in the world, be it your world or the larger world. Enjoy life!

Update on the bambino to come soon! With pictures!

Merry Christmas

2010-12-16T15:10:00.003-05:00

Wishing you and your family a wonderful Christmas and happy new year!

Baby's First Christmas 2010

PS Cougartown's subtitle last week... "All I want for Christmas is a new title... Cougartown" I love that show!

"Maternity Leave Musings" or "My Child's First Words Will Be 'Tyra Mail'"

2010-12-01T16:20:00.005-05:00

I can't believe it's been two months since I pushed out a small human. Sometimes it seems like I've had this child in my life forever and other days I wake up wondering, "When did you get here?" Needless to say, the past two months have been life changing! I've learned so much about myself, how much I can handle, and how to ask for help (something I've never been very good at). Now that my maternity leave is over, it will be a whole new ball game. But first, I bring you "The Three Things I learned on Maternity Leave."

1. The DVR can be your best friend or your worst enemy.

I've had a few random "crack TV" shows on the DVR for a while, but I never really watched everything I recorded. While on maternity leave, I watched everything! Some of which I wish I hadn't done. Because now I'm addicted. I've enjoyed an "America's Next Top Model" here and there, but this season they pulled out all the stops. Big prizes and major photo shoots!

Another show I really enjoy is "Cougartown" with Courtney Cox. When the show first started it had a little something to do with "cougars" (older women who go after younger men). But now it has nothing to do with that! And each week the subtitle changes. Some of my favorites are "Regretfully we give you... Cougartown," "It's ok to watch a show called... Cougartown," and "Titles are hard... Cougartown!"

And of course there's GLEE! I didn't watch it at all last year, but just one show this season got me hooked! The hubby bought me the first season and I had it finished in two weeks! Such a great show!!!

2. Staying indoors all day makes me cranky!

Yup. If I didn't go outside during the day, I would be super cranky by the time the hubby got home. I get cabin fever in a heartbeat! Just a simple walk around the block helps. But if I were to "get out of the house," it would lead to...

3. Getting out of the house can break the bank!

That's right. If I were to "get out of the house" for a bit, I usually ended up at Target. If I ended up at Target I would usually spend money. I would find some great deals, but great deals on things I don't need is still money spent.

As you can gather, both Michael and I are glad that I am getting back to work... both for my sanity and our back account. I'm thankful that I am able to take the LuvBug with me, but I do enjoy the little moments away from him... time for a simple pedicure, a cup of coffee, or simply a nice hot bath. This new stage of life is quite an adventure!

He's here!

2010-10-11T14:02:00.004-04:00

Carl Alden McLean arrived on September 26, 2010 at 9:52pm, weighing in at 8lbs and 4oz and 20 inches long. He's a perfect mix of both his mom and dad!

Michael and I took classes in the Bradley Method to prepare for labor. The teach asked that we write our birth stories after our babies were born. So, here's our story:

Sunday morning, September 26, I woke up around 5am to 6am with what felt like menstrual craps. I didn’t think anything of it, got up and went about getting ready. Michael and I went to church. I continued to feel the “cramps” during our early service and Sunday School. Around 11:30 Michael said he thought I might be in early labor. At that point, I became a little panicked and started going through things in my office I wanted done before the baby came. Once I was finished we went to Target to get a few things we thought we might need for the hospital. While at Target the “cramps” became stronger and closer together and Michael began to time them, they were about 10 minutes apart.

After leaving Target, we went to the annual church picnic. After I ate something, the “cramps” died down. We left the picnic around 2pm and went home. Once we got home, the “cramps” came back and we begin timing them again. I decided to take a bath and Michael loaded up the car with bags, pillows, a cooler, and more stuff than we would ever need. Michael also started timing again and contractions were between 5 and 8 minutes apart. When I got out of the bath at about 4:30 to 5pm we decided to call the hospital. They told us to come on in since we lived 45 minutes away. On the way we stopped at Starbucks because I wanted something to eat before we got to the hospital (and they wouldn't let me eat till after the birth).

After all the paperwork, they checked to see if I was in labor and told me I was 7 to 8 centimeters dilated. They took me to a room and took my vitals. I then got back in the bathtub. After a little while in the bath, the midwife suggested I try something new. I got out and Michael and I went for a walk. While we were walking around, a nurse getting off duty told me to try squatting while I walked. I did and a big contraction came. She and Michael helped me through it and I was ready to go back to the room. Once back in the room I tried squatting on the labor ball. After awhile the midwife suggested I try lying on my side. I did and it made the contractions much stronger. I felt like I needed to push and the midwife said to go for it. After a few times pushing, I decided I wanted to sit up. This made the contractions less painful and after a little while the midwife suggested I lay back on my side. After a few more pushes, my water broke. A. A few more pushes and the baby crowned. Another push and he came out all at once. Carl Alden McLean was born at 9:52pm on September 26. We spent the next hour bonding with our son before they got his stats and his grandparents came to visit.

I've reached my breaking point.

2010-09-01T13:38:00.003-04:00

Have you ever had so much to do that you didn't know where to start? Or had so much to do and know where to start, but everything else keeps getting in your way? Well, that's me. So, might as well use some of that free therapy called blogging and vent away!

I am now 35 weeks pregnant, and I feel every single day of it. People keep telling me I don't look that big, but I feel HUGE! I feel like I just keep expanding in all directions. Does it ever stop? Will I ever be able to see my toes again?

And then there's work. Don't get me wrong, I love my job and wouldn't be doing it if I didn't feel called to it, but sometimes there's only so much you can take. Since we don't have a pastor, I'm the next best thing I guess. I'd be so much better at juggling everything if I wasn't a month from pushing out a baby! And since we don't have a pastor right now, our council is freaking out because they just remembered there's no maternity leave policy! Ya! I asked to have something put together back in March, but I kept being put on the back burner because of other "more important" things. So when August rolls around they finally decide they need to come up with a maternity policy. This is not the best policy, but it is a policy. I'm disappointed in how it came to be (no research or asking of other churches, no regard for the synod guidelines, etc). With not going into details, I feel very hurt by the arguments that were made. I know that the whole church does not feel this way, but I feel as though people on council care about and value the position of Director of Youth and Family Ministry, but they do not care about the actual person in that position. They care more about what is best for their families, and not what is best for my starting a family or physical recovery. I'm very disappointed in the church council. But like I told our council president, I will take the time to let my body heal and recovery and bond with my baby, it's not about the money.

This week our secretary is also gone on a much needed vacation. But that means I get to do my job, pastoral duties, and HER job too. This wouldn't be so bad except we had a death Sunday evening. So now I'm helping to plan a funeral on top of everything else. And the copier (which is what our computers are hooked up to to print) went out yesterday. And my computer keeps freezing up on me. Really?! What else can happen right now?

I know that God never gives us more than we can handle, but I'm really starting to lose it. Without the use of the copier or my computer half the time I've started cleaning out my office and looking at my bookshelf at all the books I've bought to read "someday." You know, I'm doing the things I keep leaving to one day when I have the time. Well, I may not officially have the time right now, but God is obviously telling me to slow down. Why else would God let my computer freeze?!

So I'm going to go back to my cleaning and shredding, look over my bookshelf again, and hopefully before I go home print a few things. Or maybe I'll just take a Starbucks break...

Friday Five: Decluttering

2010-08-20T14:15:00.003-04:00

I was browsing the RevGalBlogPals sit today for some children sermon inspiration. I haven't done their Friday Five in a while and thought I'd play. It's a pretty good one too! Here you go:

1. What things do you like to hang on to?
Craft supplies!!! I think I like to horde stuff rather than make stuff. I have so much yarn, paper, beads, stamps, fabric, etc. but hardly find the time to sit down and craft. I love to throw things out, but when it comes to craft supplies I always think, "I might find the time to do this one day."

2. What is hard to let go of?
I don't find it hard to let go of much. I'm not a very sentimental person, but do treasure old letters, pictures, etc. I guess I find it hard to let go of things I might use one day, craft supplies for example. I also find it hard to let go of some books and CDs.

3. What is easy to give away?
CLOTHES! If I give them away it means I get to get new ones, right?!

4. Is there any kind of stumbling block connected with cleaning out?
Not for me. I love to clean out! I love to simplify things. I find it refreshing to clean out, throw away, and get rid of.

5. What do you like to collect, hoard, or admire?
Obviously craft supplies. But other than that, not much. I like the idea of collecting something, but don't want to actually collect stuff because that means I have to put it some where and then it collects dusts and then I have to clean, and I do not like to clean.

Bonus: Tell us about recycling or whatever you can think of that goes along with this muttering about cluttering.

A few years ago the hubby and I joined swaptree.com. It's an awesome site for swapping music, books, DVDs and games. I haven't swapped anything in a long time (and need to update the things I have to swap) but loved it when I did. It's totally free, except for the media mail shipping! And you get new (to you) stuff!

July Update

2010-07-26T16:21:00.004-04:00

Well, it seems I've gone to one post a month. Better than nothing, right?! I've talked to some other blogging buddies who haven't blogged as much recently and they seem to feel the same way I do; keep the blog 'cause you never know when you'll want to come back to it. Another friend said that blogging is like free therapy, and who doesn't need free therapy?!

So, my update for July.

I thought that working at a church is usually quite in the summers. Not this summer. Not for me. Although we don't meet regularly for youth throughout the summer, we do get together for service work, the mission trip, and camp.

A colleague and I created a program last summer called Summer of Service (SOS for short) in which we engage in service learning with different organizations around town. Last summer we stuck to the Rock Hill area. This summer we are going to Charlotte. We start by learning about the organization and talking to people who work there. Then we get our serve on! We've sorted clothes, weeded, washed gourds, and listened to people's stories so far this summer. We still have one more day to go before the summer is over.

At 28 weeks prego, I took 10 youth with one other adult to Savannah for our Mission Trip. We painted houses, sorted clothes, cleaned, played with kids, and hung out at nursing homes. We also made new friends, went to the beach, ate a LOT of skittles, grew closer to God and one another. It was a great trip despite sleeping on air mattresses, our non existent AC on the bus, and the heat. I still don't think I've fully recovered yet.

The saddest part of the summer so far is that our pastor has taken a new call. His last Sunday was July 18. It's been mighty quite around the office since then. He was dearly loved by this congregation. I will miss him very much, not only because he was my boss, but because he was also my campus pastor a few years back (ok, maybe more than a few). I first attended church here when I was in college. I was deeply involved in the campus ministry program and the life of the congregation. My most memorable moments were spent talking to PR about seminary and what I felt called to do. I remember us saying it would be so cool to work together one day, and now we have. It might have only been for a short time, but it was a little dream come true. He is a mentor I still look to for guidance and someone to talk to about things who will be real with me. He'll truly be missed.

The summer isn't over yet, and I hope to post a few pics of summer happenings soon (maybe I'll get two posts in July).

Chi-town Trip

2010-06-29T13:45:00.008-04:00

Back at the end of May I went to Chicago to visit my girl Rebaso. We had a great time! We went back to the Chicago Botanical Gardens and visited the edible gardens and the model train gardens. We also saw a few movies, ate some really good food, and had a girls night! Here's a few pictures of our adventures!

Deep dish pizza goes great with Shirley Temples and Roy Rogers:

It was supper foggy the morning of our 5K (and 1 miler):
We went to a White Sox game, where the fog rolled in:
It was hard to see the fireworks:
A little church in the model train garden:
Hollywood (everything was made out of natural fibers, very cool):

Cruise'n through May

2010-05-25T15:08:00.004-04:00

So the other day the DH asked if I had given up on my blog. I told him no, but it has been quite a while since my last post. Those new year's ambitions of blogging more seemed to have gone right out the window, along with exercising and crafting more. I seem to have no interest in doing anything in the evenings, or have been out of town.

May has been a busy month so far! We went on a lovely vacation by cruise ship to the Bahamas. We had a great time, and will probably cruise again. The food was ok, not as great and amazing as commercials tell you it is. Our room was very nice, although we did pay a few extra dollars for a bit more space. Well worth the money!

On thing I was surprised by was how commercialized the Bahamas are. I felt like we were walking around a large outdoor outlet mall. Get your cheap diamonds here, your fake Coach bags there; the only thing I bought in the Bahamas was a Starbucks crackachino and a necklace made with pearls and shells.

We spent one day at the Atlantas resort and really enjoyed doing so. We read, slept, and splashed in the water of the lagoon in the morning. Then we had lunch at Johnny Rockets (again, how American!) and spent the afternoon walking around looking at all the aquariums and fish. Atlantas is a very cool place!

The one down fall to the trip was that I ended up with a bad cold half way through the trip. I think it was due to the moisture in the air and our cold air conditioned room. Two weeks later, I'm still fighting this thing off. Ugh! But all in all, it was a great trip! Here's a few pictures for you.

Our boat:

Cool towel art:
At Atlantas:
The lagoon at Atlantas:
Formal Night:

Where did April go?

2010-04-29T16:51:00.006-04:00

Oh, I know. It flew by while I was work'n hard! April was a busy month for this church worker. Holy week and Easter started the month with bang! Then it was some normal run of the mill work, along with getting ready for Youth Sunday. Since non of my high schoolers want to talk in front of people, I gave them the option of creating videos for the majority of the sermon part. Let me rephrase that. I gave them the option of doing the fun stuff while I got to learn how to piece together videos and worry about whether we could really pull this off or not and if all the equipment would work right come Sunday morning. We did have a bit of a laptop malfunction, but after we did some laying on of hands and major praying, we resurrected the computer! Over all it was a great Youth Sunday and everyone did a great job!

In personal news, I'm doing well. I haven't felt sick in a few weeks now and have started to get somewhat better sleep. Although I still wake up about 3 times to pee. Michael and I started attending a Bradley Method class in the area. It's a natural childbirth class. So far, it's pretty good. While I agree with all most everything, there a few things I'm a little weary about and wish it wasn't so one sided.

Our garden is doing great! This year we were able to get things in the ground on Good Friday (first Friday in April), which from now on will be when I get things planted. I got plants for tomatoes, peppers, hot peppers, and some herbs. I started squash, zucchini, and cucumbers from seed and they are doing awesome! My herb pot from last year is making a great come back. We also bought a rain barrel and after a good hard rain this past weekend, it's all ready full! We've got bluebirds in the bluebird house; a nest was in one of my ferns a week after hanging it up, and now we have little, speckled, blue eggs in it too (I'm thinking a Robin). I'm asking for bird feeders and shepherds hooks for my birthday this year. (Hint! Hint!)

I hope your spring is going as well as ours.

Here I am at 16 weeks pregers!

Spring has Sprung!

2010-03-18T10:24:00.003-04:00

Well, it's finally here! Spring!!! As much as I love snow in the winter, I love the fresh new days of spring as well. I'm a four seasons kind of girl and the change is great. Flowers are popping up, trees are budding, and new life is just beginning everywhere. Including inside me!

That's right, I'm pregnant! The DH and I are very excited!!! We had kind of a rough start, but are doing great now. We went to the doctor on Monday and we heard the heart beat. It was so amazing! Once we got the all clear from the doctor that we were doing well, I immediately ordered fabric for the nursery! I want to use the Dick and Jane fabric by Michael Miller, and it has recently being retired, so I had to go on a mad search to find it. (No worries, I found all I needed and a little more!) I am now 11.5 weeks along and due on October 3. The DH is hoping it will wait a week and pop out on 10/10/10, which would be pretty cool. Yes, we will probably find out what it is. No, we don't care what it is (we want to healthy baby). Yes, we have thought of a few names. No, we aren't really telling them yet. Right now we are just calling it McNugget (because the DH's nickname at work is Big Mac and we are McLean's).

In other news, our little kitty Church has found a new home. She and Gracie were not getting along at all and we were finding pee and poop everywhere but the litter box. And it wasn't just Church. We think Gracie was trying to mark her territory. The pee on our bed was the last straw, and we found a lovely shelter that said they would make sure she found a good home. We hated to take her to a shelter and not find a home for her ourselves, but it had just gotten to be too much for us. The nice lady at the shelter said they had never sent an animal to the pound and because she is so small (and cute), she would find a home quickly, and that we did the right thing instead of just letting her go in our backyard (which we thought about) without being fixed. We were very sad to see little Church go, but know that we did the right thing.

That's about it in our little neck of the woods. I hope you are enjoying Spring!

Winter Song by Katherine Mansfield

2010-03-02T12:29:00.000-05:00

Rain and wind, and wind and rain.
Will the Summer come again?
Rain on houses, on the street,
Wetting all the people's feet,
Though they run with might and main.
Rain and wind, and wind and rain.

Snow and sleet, and sleet and snow.
Will the Winter never go?
What do beggar children do
With no fire to cuddle to,
P'raps with nowhere warm to go?
Snow and sleet, and sleet and snow.

Hail and ice, and ice and hail,
Water frozen in the pail.
See the robins, brown and red,
They are waiting to be fed.
Poor dears, battling in the gale!
Hail and ice, and ice and hail.

Friday Five: Gloomy Winter Days

2010-02-05T13:14:00.004-05:00

Candlemass is past, and Christmas is well and truly over, here in the UKFebruary looks set to be its usual grey and cold self. Signs of spring are yet to emerge; if like me you long for them perhaps you need ways to get through these long dark days. So lets share a few tips for a cold and rainy/ snowy day....

1. Exercise, what do you do if you can't face getting out into the cold and damp?

I have a lot of videos. I try to do one of them. I just got The Biggest Loser's Weight Loss Yoga. It's really good!

2. Food; time to comfort eat, or time to prepare your body for the coming spring/summer?

COMFORT EAT!!! But, in moderation for the coming spring/summer. I love chili and stews with crusty bread! Yumm!

3. Brainpower; do you like me need to stave off depression, if so how do you do it?

By curling up on the coach and having a good cry. Or by telling myself to "Snap out of it and go do something!" and then going and doing something.

4. How about a story that lifts your spirits, is there a book or film that you return to to stave off the gloom?

Anything with Will Ferrell! Anything that makes me laugh.

5. Looking forward, do you have a favourite spring flower/ is there something that says spring is here more than anything else?

Daffodils, tulips, and dogwood trees. When they are in bloom, it's most definitely spring!

Bonus; post a poem/ piece of music that points to the coming spring......

The song Purple Summer from the Tony award winning musical, Spring Awakening!

Snow Day

2010-01-31T15:01:00.004-05:00

When it looks like this outside...

I'm inside doing this...

What more can I do?

2010-01-21T10:25:00.004-05:00

What append in Haiti over a week ago is a tragedy to us all. Why? Because Jesus told us to reach out to those in need, share what we have with those who do not, and love our neighbor as our self. I hate that the political parties in our country are turning this into a platform. I am heartbroken by those who feel Haiti brought this on themselves.

I find myself wondering, "what more can I do?" I gave to Lutheran World Relief and the DH gave to the Red Cross. I've prayed that Haiti will find hope in their despair. I've listened to the news to better understand the situation. What more can I do?

I received the email at the bottom of this post at work and thought, "If only I was medically trained, had the time, had the money I could participate!" But I don't have medical training. I don't have the time. I don't have the money. What more can I do?

You too may be feeling overwhelmed with the tragedy in Haiti. You may be feeling overwhelmed with tragedy that is all over the world. You may even be feeling overwhelmed with the pain right outside your door, down the street, and in your own town. You may also be thinking, "what more can I do?"

I'm not here to tell you what more you can do. In our own day to day life, we have to make sure we are healthy and taken care of. With the economy the way it is, it can be hard to even make sure our families are fed and there's gas in our cars.

Now you may be thinking, "what is she talking about? I thought I was suppose to give what I have." And you are. But if you are like me, and are feeling overwhelmed about giving financially, think of the other ways you can give. Take the time to learn more about Haitian culture. Use your skills to make something in honor of their tragedy, something that could be sent to them and used, a blanket for example. I challenge you to think outside of the box in ways you can give. One of those ways is by visiting the Craft Hope for Haiti etsy site. All the proceeds from this site will go Doctors Without Boarders. 100%! So if you are looking for that handmade something and want to make a difference, check them out.

For those of you who do have medical training, the time, and the money, you can participate in the following. If you know someone who might be interested in this, please pass it along as well.

My hope is that you will continue to pray for, think about, and remember not only the people of Haiti, but all people who are suffering around the world and right in our own backyards. We are called to walk with our brothers and sisters in pain. We are called to remember their tragedy. We are called to action. What more can you do?

TO OUR MEDICAL COMMUNITY - a call for help for Haiti
The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services is requesting physicians of specific specialities to deploy with the National Disaster Medical Assistance teams to Haiti. The need is for trauma surgeons, orthopedists, anesthesiologists, and others with experience in treating crush injuries. Volunteers must be able to serve for at least 2 weeks, and be willing to live and work in spartan conditions.

Preference will be given to physicians who are Creole or French speakers, and to those currently credentialed through the Medical Reserve Corps in their home state, or the ESAR-VHP program (Emergency Services Advanced Registration of Volunteer Health Personnel).

These volunteers will need to be credentialed as temporary federal employees and will need to be able to provide credentialing paperwork as soon as asked. Credentialing normally takes about a week. Volunteers with these clinical skills should contact Michala Koch at Michala.Koch@hhs.gov. Not everyone who wishes to help will necessarily be deployed, and those without the requisite skills may not receive a direct response.

For medical professionals wishing to help in this way in future relief efforts, please take a few minutes to learn about the Medical Reserve Corps, identify your local unit, and register to become part of the corps. To do so, visit www.medicalreservecorps.gov. This is the channel through which medical volunteers are deployed immediately following an event, and only those registered beforehand are likely to be deployed.

Thank you for your service!

Mike Nevergall
Assistant Director, Lutheran Disaster Response
Phone: 773-380-2748
Fax: 773-380-2493

Friday Five: If

2010-01-15T15:22:00.002-05:00

1. If you were a color, what would you be?
It's hard to choose just one color. Can I be a rainbow?

2. If you were a flower (or plant), what would you be?
I would be a fushia plant because I really like what their flowers look like and humming birds like them.

3. If you were an animal, what kind would you be?
I would be a cat, because I looooooooooove to nap! (Just ask the DH!)

4. If you were a shoe, what type would you be?
In the winter I would be a Dansko original and in the summer I would be a chaco!

5. If you were a typeface, which font would you be?
Something crazy and fun. I have one that's called Girls Are Weird. I'm weird, so I guess I'd be that one.

Happy New Year!

2010-01-15T14:48:00.005-05:00

Well, it's a new year. And the first month is almost over. It's had a pretty good start if I do say so myself. So far I've done really well tracking everything I eat with SparkPeople. It's an amazing site and it's free! I've also organized all the Christmas decorations and my crafts supplies. Here's a few things I hope to do this year...

Finish all started crafts. That's right, I sure do have a lot of projects started that I'm determined to finish. Knitting, sewing, scrapbooking, and more. So this year I am going to finish what I've started!

Fully live into a healthy lifestyle. Speaking of finishing what I've started, I'm going to continue to live out my healthy lifestyle changes. Exercising on a regular basis, tracking what I eat, making self-care an important part of my ministry; these are things that I want to continue in the new year. When my friend Rebaso was here we planned out how to live into a healthy lifestyle, including reading books and discussing them. The first planned book we are going to read together is Three Cups of Tea and Esther. I'm also planning on participating in the Tri the Rock triathlon in May. I hope to bike more when the weather warms up, including biking to work in the summer.

Blog more. I know I kind of abandoned my blog last year, but I'm hoping to do a much better job at keeping it up to date this year. There are so many exciting things planned for this year and I want to help my family and friends know what's happening in my life. So, I'll be blogging more.

I hope this new year brings you new adventures and changes too. I look forward to all this year has to offer. Maybe it will even bring new life!

A Little Story

2010-01-12T20:33:00.003-05:00

One day there was a little kitty. She decided to climb a tree, but then got really scared and couldn't figure out how to get back down. Three nice ladies were walking by and saw the little kitty and tried to get her to come down.

Meanwhile there was another lady and a pastor who saw these ladies and were wondering what they were doing. They saw the tiny kitty and ran outside to help. The pastor got a ladder. Once the ladder was in place, one of the nice ladies went up and was able to grab the kitty. The three nice ladies couldn't take care of the little kitty, so the pastor took the kitty inside. He and the church lady gave her some milk. Everyone fell in love with the little kitty at once.

The church lady decided to take her to the vet that afternoon. The kitty was scared, but did very well. The church lady learned that the kitty was only 6 weeks old and a girl. She weighed 1 lbs and 8 oz. The church lady took her home and made her some soft food, water, and a little poop box in her hall bathroom. She loved on the little kitty for a long time. The church lady decided to call the kitty Church, becuase she already had a cat named Gracie, and since she was found at Grace Lutheran Church, thus she became "Church the kitty."

That was my day.

Holiday Update

2010-01-07T11:59:00.010-05:00

What a whirlwind the holidays were! Here's a little update on Thanksgiving, Christmas, and the new year.

This thanksgiving we invited both sides of the family to our house. Now that we are back "home" in the South, we wanted to share the holiday with both of our wonderful families. The DH made a brine for the turkey and smoked it with his parent's smoker. It was tasty! I made mashed potatoes, a green bean casserole, and a few other things. We asked the rest of our family to bring dishes to share. It was quit a feast!
The DH and his turkey brine:

All the family and all the food:

The Sunday before Christmas the DH and I joined my parents for the Panther's game. They gave him tickets for his birthday. It was very cold! Here's a pic of my mom and I all bundled up! (I'm in the pink!)

Since I had to "work" Christmas eve, we drove to the DH's family after the services. We woke up to filled stockings and many gifts under the tree. We celebrated Christmas with my dad's side of the family on Sunday afternoon. Both were small and quite with lots of food and family. Just the way I like it!
The DH, me, and Snoopy (my SIL's dog):

We got corn:

The basket I made for my mom for Christmas:

My friend Rebaso was in town for the week after Christmas, so we spent new year's making pizza and watching movies in our sweat pants. We watched 500 Days of Summer and The Hangover which finished just in time to watch the ball drop. Then we were off to bed. We woke up bright and early to start the new year off right by walking the airport loop at 8:30am. That's 4 miles in cold weather on new year's day! Go us!

I hope your holidays merry and bright! Look for another post soon about my new year's goals and resolutions. Peace friends.

Living Healthy for Life

2009-12-04T13:27:00.004-05:00

This year I've really tried to get healthy. I started a blog with some friends and it really help keep me accountable. We kind of stooped posting this summer, but we've still kept in touch and have encouraged each other. I also completed a 60 mile bike ride and a few 5Ks. My eating hasn't always been the best, but I know that it's something that I will constantly have to be awear of the rest of my life. I joined a second gym (that's right! I'm a member the YMCA and Omni Fitness Center). The main reason I joined is that they offer Body Pump, a weight training class that I absolutely LOVE! I'm continuing to attend Zumba and spin classes too. I rejoined SparkPeople this fall to help keep track of my eating and exercise. This year has really made me awear of how much being healthy is a constant decision I have to make everyday. Working towards a healthy weight is a constant journey. My goal in 2010 is to continue to make it a life style.

The DH is training for a century ride, that's 100 miles in one day. I am so proud of him and the training he has put into this. I know it takes a lot of work to ride that much in one day and he is going to be great! He is putting in some major training hours (long rides, shooting hoops, weights and more). He is also set a very admirable goal of raising $2500 towards the fight against diabetes, something that is close to home for us both. We both have family members who have Type 2 Diabetes. We realize that if we don't live healthy lives now, we are both at risk of for having diabetes as well. If you would like to donate towards this amazing cause, please do so today! I've also added a link to my side bar.

Here's to finishing FINE in 2009 and get'n thin in 2010!

Riding my butt off!

2009-10-18T14:46:00.011-04:00

Well, I didn't ride it completely off. There's still plenty of butt there. :-)

On Friday night the DH and I went to the open house at Cycle Spoken Here in Cary, NC. I picked up my registration packet, had a glass of wine and a cupcake, and looked around.

Saturday morning I got up, took a shower to loosen up my muscles, and we headed off to get some breakfast. When we got to the start I started to get a little nervous. Would I be able to really do this? Could I really bike 60 miles? Here's a few pictures from the morning:

After the first 15 miles, I felt pretty good. Although I was still unsure if I could really do this. I called the DH and he gave me a little pep talk. The first stop was at a horse farm. It was so cool to be biking through the country and pull up to this horse farm and see all these bikes lying around. They had homemade cookies, fruit, water and Gatorade, peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, and more. After talking to the DH and fueling up, I hoped back on my bike and rode another 15 miles to the next stop. By the time I got there I was the last rider to stop. I met up with the sweepers and we rode together to the next stop, which was in a strawberry field. I shut that stop down and we were off again. Around 3pm I finally rolled into the parking lot. I was the last person to finish, but I finished. I did it. I rode 60 miles and raised over $1,000 to help fight cancer.

It was an amazing ride and I met some great people. Thanks to everyone who donated to this amazing cause and for supporting me in this!

Life.

2009-10-08T13:28:00.003-04:00

Life has been quite busy as of recent.

Work has picked up now that school is back in session. I've added a new little group to our church: Little Lutherans, a group for kids in Kindergarten through 2nd grade. We met for the first time last week. They were so cute! We talked about the creation story, created beautiful watercolor flowers and "God created" (same as "Simon Says"). This Sunday we have Grace Gang (3rd through 5th graders). We are studying the fruits of the Spirit this year and this month is Love. We have quite an hour packed of fun! I'm even going to attempt making home-made conversation hearts with "God sayings" on them. Not to mention regular youth group meetings for the middle and high school youth. And high school Sunday school. And this week children's time during worship. It's been a busy planning week! But I love it! I enjoy my job and love the kids I work with. I even have a college helper this year with the little kids!

My personal life has been pretty low key. I've picked up on my knitting again. I've finished 1 1/2 socks and picked up a skirt I've been working on. The craziest I got in the kitchen was adding cinnamon and chili powder to boxed brownies. (Wicked good!!!) I cooked dinner for the campus ministry this week and made a Mexican lasagna, yellow rice with veggies, and the brownies. Outside I've planted a few pansies around the mail box and have some more to plant around the front of the house. And this weekend the DH and I are off to Cary, NC for the le Tour de Femme bike ride! It's not to late to donate towards this amazing cause (See my side bar.)

I hope this fall weather is bringing you joy!

What I did over summer vacation.

2009-09-30T12:09:00.007-04:00

Here's a few pictures from this past summer.

I made a basket or two...

These veggies and herbs from my garden became dinner...

I ate the cat baby...

Just kidding, I didn't eat the cat baby!

Bananas in Pajamas

2009-09-11T11:07:00.003-04:00

As the weather cools off into a lovely fall, my son and daughter are rediscovering their joy in cozy footed "pajammies"--though not to sleep in. They love to hang out in the pjs before bed or in the morning, but when it's time to actually sleep they strip to their skivvies! Good thing they finally have their own rooms, now that they are getting older.

Without going to TMI land, share with us your sleepwear memories and preferences....

1. What was your favorite sleeping attire as a child? And did you call them pjs, pajamas (to rhyme with llamas), pajamas (to sort of rhyme with bananas), jammies, or ???
Much like the PJs described above, I too had a pair of red footed PJs that zipped all the way from the foot to the collar. I also had a My Little Pony nightgown. I called them PJs if they had feet or pants and nightgowns if they did not.

2. Favorite sleepwear put on your own little ones, or perhaps those you babysat? (Bonus points if you made it).
There were these two cutie pies I babysat in Philly and they both had the footed PJs. They reminded me of the red ones I had as a kid.

3. How about today-do you prefer nightgown, pajamas, undies, or au naturel?
It depends on the weather. I lounge in some sort of comfy pants (flannel pants, my hubby's old sweats, etc.) and a t-shirt or sweat shirt. If it's cold, I'll sleep in this as well. If it's hot, the pants come off and it's a t-shirt and undies for me.

4. Silky smooth or flannel-y cozy?
flannel-y cozy please!

5. Socks or bare feet?
Bare feet all the way!

Where did August go?

2009-09-10T13:58:00.004-04:00

That's what I'm wondering. I can't believe it's already September, school has started back, and fall is in the air. So let me catch you up to date.

August was a good month. I went to Lutheridge for confirmation camp and had a great time. I love Ashville, the mountains, and being in "a place a part." We had 7 youth go to camp, 5 of which were with campfirmation and the other 2 who just went to camp (one high school girl and one elementary girl). The high school girl had such a great time that she wants to go back next year and wants to be a councilor one day. Yay! First time to camp and she did an OAP program! Yay! Yay! Yay!

Michael and I also went to the Outer Banks for a few days of relaxation. We went to the beach, road our bikes, ate wonderful food, saw a lighthouse, drank some wine, and slept late. It was good to get away.

When we got back from the Outer Banks, we were off again to Charleston with 20 youth and 4 other adults for the annual youth beach retreat. Being my first one, I was a little stressed the whole time. But I feel it went well and the youth had a good time.

I've been on a knitting sabbatical recently and I'm not sure why. I haven't picked up needles in about three weeks. I think the reason why is these stupid vampire books. That's right, the Twilight series has taken over all my free time. I am now on book 4 and hopefully I'll get back to knitting when it's finished. I keep telling everyone I'm reading them because the girls I work with are reading them. But let's be honest, I'm reading them because I've been sucked into the drama of Bella, Edward, and Jacob. I want to know if Edward is ever going to turn Bella into a vampire or if Jacob will win her over. I'm hooked.

The other thing that happened in August that is pretty monumental are the decisions of the ELCA church wide assembly. The church body that I am a party of truly made me proud. The vote was passed that (1)we the church will recognize and uphold people in same gender, monogamous, life long relationships and (2) that if people who are living in these kinds of relationships feel called to become a rostered leader of the church then they may do so. Who are we to tell people who they can and can't love? Who are we to deny God's calling? Who are we to judge? Please pray for the continued conversations that the people of the ELCA are having about these decisions. Not everyone agrees with these decisions and feels the way I do. These decisions bring joy and pain to this church body. Someone once said, "Love one another as I have loved you." Sometimes it is really hard to do that.

That's about it for my August. Hopefully I wont go so long between posts next time.

National Youth Gathering

2009-07-31T14:38:00.011-04:00

Last week I was in New Orleans with 7 youth and one other adult for the National Lutheran Youth Gathering. It was an adventure! This was my 4th gathering; I had been twice as a youth participant myself and volunteered while in college. Unlike any other gathering this gathering had a service component to it. Everyone participated in some sort of service activity and ours was working at a school, painting classrooms and putting together picnic tables. Now that is a planning nightmare! Why you may ask? There were 37,000 people at the gathering! It was an awe filled experience coming out of the dome in the evenings. Just walking around the city, you saw tons of youth. And did we walk! Everywhere we went we walked. There were a lot of cool bands and musicians, like Group1Crew, Skillet (not really my style), Amanda Shaw and of course we saw Lost and Found! There were a lot of inspiring speakers too. Worship on Sunday was amazing as always and lead by Bishop Hanson. I think the best part of the experience was hearing the Mayer's thank you for all of our hard work and Bishop Hanson reading a thank you letter from President Obama for all of our service to the NOLA community. Here's some of my pics from the week.

Mass gatherings in the dome:Banners that were all over the city:Me and my daddy (My mom and him volunteered! They rock!):Getting ready for our day of service (with thousands of other youth):

Friday Five: Games

2009-07-17T07:46:00.002-04:00

This week's Friday Five over at the RevGalBlogPals is all about games. Most of you know that I'm not really a game person, but I thought I'd "play" anyway. Enjoy!

1. Childhood games?
I loved playing pretend as a kid, I know that's not a game though. The kids in our neighborhood would all get together and play things like Annie (I was always the youngest one). I married my neighbor once too, his sister did the ceremony. I also like to play Candy Land.

2. Favorite and/or most hated board games?
I really don't like playing any board games.

3. Card games?
I don't know any card games and am too impatient to learn any.

4. Travel/car games?
I enjoy the Alphabet game (finding the letters in order). I also love to look for different licence plates. I like to see where people are coming from or going to and I like trying to figure out personalized plates.

5. Adult pastimes that are not video games?
I love knitting!!! I also enjoy sewing and other craftiness. My MIL just gave me a bunch of basket making stuff and helped me figure out patterns and things, so I'm adding basket making to the list of craftiness. I also enjoy reading, talking walks or bike rides, and watching movies.

Bonus: Any ideas for family vacations or gatherings?
Most of my family vacations where pretty planned out. We were always doing something, learning about something, or playing in a pool. I enjoy having a bit of down time just to read or knit and be in the company of family. I ended up teaching my little cousins to knit last summer. However, we always have a deck of cards (and a poker game). Our family also likes to cook together instead of always going out to eat.

le Tour de Femme

2009-07-07T10:36:00.002-04:00

Well, it's official. I signed up to ride a metric century (64 miles) in October, le Tour de Femme. It's an all female ride that raises money to help the Lance Armstrong Foundation which supports people with cancer and their families. I'm riding in honor of my Nana, who passed away from lung cancer, and my Great Aunt Sue, who passed away from breast cancer. Honestly, I'm a little scared. I've only ridden about 20 miles at one time. I just have to keep telling myself I can do this and I will do this! I did a triathlon and I thought I couldn't do that either. So, I'm soliciting for support... and donations. Please go to my donation website and support me and a great cause! You can also go to the side bar and click on donation to get to the webpage. Thanks so much for your support! I'll keep you informed on how the training goes.

Friday Five

2009-06-19T16:40:00.004-04:00

I haven't read the RevGals blog in a long time. So today I decided to check on what was happening over there. Here's today's Friday Five! (P.S. This book, Life is a Verb, sounds pretty interesting.)

The author of Life is a Verb, Patti Digh worked her book around these topics concerning life as a verb:

Say yes.
Be generous.
Speak up.
Love more.
Trust yourself.
Slow down.

As I read and pondered about living more intentionally, I also have wondered what this Friday Five should be. This book has been the jumping off point for this Friday.

1. What awakens you to the present moment?
Clearing my mind, breathing in, and focusing on the moment

2. What are 5 things you see out your window right now?
Trees, the pond, a yellow jacket flying around, green grass, and our hamack

3. Which verbs describe your experience of God?
explore, love, discuss, ponder, praise

4. From the book on p. 197: Who were you when you were 13? Where did that kid go?
When I was 13, I was swimming at the neighborhood pool as much as possible, having sleep overs with friends and crushing on boys. I miss hanging out at that neighborhood pool, some how I can't stay up past 10:30 anymore and I'm happily married.

5. From the book on p. 88: If your work were the answer to a question, what would the question be?
How do you help others explore their faith?

Bonus idea for you here or on your own--from the book on p. 149:"Go outside. Walk slowly forward. Open your hand and let something fall into it from the sky. It might be an idea, it might be an object. Name it. Set it aside. Walk forward. Open your hand and let something fall into it from the sky. Name it. Set it aside. Repeat. . . ."

Venting

2009-06-18T14:40:00.004-04:00

I have to let something out. I hate those stupid stick figures on the back of vans, SUVs, and cars. HATE THEM! I wasn't sure why I hated them so much, but it finally hit me. It's so narcissistic. I realize the blogging is pretty narcissistic too. However, I write what I want and if you choose to read it, that's one thing. Proclaiming how much you adore all your family members, including pets, to the world on the back of your vehicle is another thing. I did see one that was of two guys and their dogs... next to a rainbow sticker. I have to admit, I really enjoyed that one! It made me smile. But you know which ones I really hate... the ones wearing mouse ears. GAG! So here's to all my wonderful friends with babies and wishing for the day of bigger cars and mini vans: DO NOT PUT STICK FIGURES ON YOUR VEHICLES! We will no longer be friends.Have a nice day!

Today is...

2009-06-14T13:41:00.002-04:00

My 27th Birthday!

And Knit In Public day!

Babies!

2009-05-27T15:54:00.005-04:00

These were in my ferns a while ago...

These are in my ferns now...

Summer Sweet

2009-04-28T11:54:00.011-04:00

I haven't written about our new home yet. So this post is all about it! First of all, we live in a small neighborhood that used to be a peach orchard (it's called Henry's Orchard), so all the street names are after different kinds of peaches (summer sweet, fancy lady, etc). We are in the back off of a coldasac. We have a large pond that I consider more a small lake in the backyard that we share with our neighbor and no one else. It's very peaceful. Since we have water, we have many different kinds of animals that also share our land: frogs, toads, lizards and salamanders, fish, all kinds of birds, and today I saw a turtle (not to forget the neighbors dogs and the cat babies... who like to hide in our closets). We also have a humming bird that hangs out. I can see him every morning out the window when I wake up. I've named him Charlie. Michael is also busy being handy man. He's making lattice panels for the back porch, which will eventually be the back drop for a patio too.

We've spent the past few weekends working in the yard. We have a wonderful plot of land and are excited to get gardening! We set up our compost bin and are hoping to get some rain barrels soon. I've set my sights on the perfect spot for our raised beds and started some seeds for it.

The house it's self is very large compared to our little Philly home. Our bedroom alone would fit one whole floor of our last house! I love decorating and have been busy making curtains in my spear time. The are so many windows and they make the house light and airy.

I hope you enjoyed the tour of our new home. Yall come back now, ya here!

2009-04-20T10:25:00.005-04:00

Pampered Chef Party

Saturday, April 25 at 4pm

My House

If you are interested in attending, please email me for directions (virginialeemclean@gmail.com) or check out the website and order something from there!

Holly Moly, Holly Week!

2009-04-08T13:26:00.005-04:00

I can't believe it's Holly Week already! Time sure is flying by. I've been working on a shell to wear on Easter, but I don't know that I'll get it done in time. It is my "first annual Lenten knit." I wanted to knit something in the 40 days of Lent to wear on Easter. I'm pretty far along. I've finished the back and 3/4 of the front. Maybe I'll finish it in time. We'll see. Here's a photo of my progress so far.Sunday was Palm Sunday and it was a wonderful service! We waved our palms at the Presbyterians across the street and sang together. It was so fun! I took our palms home and put them with some cut flowers. Here's a little peak:Have a happy Holy Week! Easter is almost here!

Long time, no Friday Five

2009-03-27T15:44:00.003-04:00

On my blog sidebar is a list titled, "Blogs I Read Every Day." After my mother became a blogger, she asked me how I could possibly read that many blogs daily!? I had to confess it then: Okay, I don't read them all every day! I have over 100 on there! But I have favorites, and you do too.Some of you probably use feed readers to let you know when your favorite bloggers have posted...not me, not yet. I just have folks who are part of my day-to-day.

So for today's Friday Five, give us five blogs you visit regularly, and tell us briefly WHY you like them. These can be RevGal and Pal bloggers and others ... or news sites, knitting sites, etc. Who are you showing the love to on a pretty constant basis?

Hopefully we will all get to know some new bloggy friends this way!

Since I have a list of the blogs I look at often on my sidebar, I thought I would post a few that I don't have there but look at often:

1. http://bikecommutetips.blogspot.com/
This is a bike commuter tips blog for people who commute to work by bike.

2. http://www.artprojectsforkids.org/
This is a blog by an art teacher. I get ideas for my Grace Gang kids here and also just love art!

3. http://www.youngclergywomen.org/the_young_clergy_women_pr/
This a friend of mine in seminary told me about. It's a whole network for young clergy women. Although I'm not clergy, I still really enjoy reading this one. I can relate in many ways to the young women who post.

4. http://sewliberated.typepad.com/
This is a blog by a lady in NC who is a sewing goddess. She used to live in Mexico and was a Montessori teacher there. She is also expecting her first child. Very fun read!

5. http://www.purlbee.com/
LOVE LOVE LOVE this blog! It's filled with great ideas for sewing, knitting, and more. Did I mention that I LOVE this blog?! I do. I love it. LOVE it.

Life is so good!

2009-03-18T14:21:00.004-04:00

Yesterday we got the official word that our house in Philly is under contract. It is such a relief to have that thing almost off our hands. It was a great house and we loved it, but we don't want to pay for it anymore! I hope that the people who move in there will enjoy it as much as we did. And all the pretty flowers I planted. And the amazing and colorful neighborhood. And all the great places to walk to to eat and shop at. And they better join the co-op! Oi, I miss living there. But there are good things about York, SC as well.

I also lost 5.6 lbs this past week. It just goes to show you that hard work pays off. And that was having a Krispy Kream donut and two beers at a concert! Go me! As Dietgirl says, "It's lard busting time!"

And I've booked my ticket to see my gals in the Midwest! Becky and Marie here I come!

Spring Cleaning

2009-03-11T17:37:00.005-04:00

Well, it's that time of year again. Spring is in the air! We have had some beautiful weather recently and it's gotten me thinking about all the things in my life I just want to clean up, get rid of, or start over. For example, this blog. I've kind of abandoned it the past few months becuase of the other blog some friends and I started. But I'm ready to get back to basics sharing my life in the digital form. I've cleaned it up a bit too and picked out a new layout. I want this to be a place to share what it means to be a child of God called to serve in youth and family ministry, a wify and catbaby mama, and a crazy creative person who is always looking for a way to express myself. I hope you will enjoy reading!

Weight Watchers

2009-03-11T17:24:00.002-04:00

(This is a post from my other blog.)

For a while I've been thinking about joining Weight Watchers. I've been doing great with my exercise, but my eating habits haven't really changed a whole lot. I don't eat bad foods (like fast foods and snacks) but I just don't really control my portion sizes. I know Weight Watchers works. I've done it before. I've done the POINTS system on my own before. I have all the books, calculators and more. So why join? Because I need something to hold me accountable. I need an official weigh in some place other than my bathroom. I need the support of a group. I also need the motivation of "I'm paying someone $10 a week so I better make this work."

So yesterday during my lunch hour I did it. I payed my $39.95 for the month and I joined. I took my shoes off and stepped on the scales. I sat through the meeting. I stayed after for the new members meeting. When I got home, I went online and created my profile. I played with all the e-tools. I went through the kitchen calculating foods and writing their points value on the box. Then I went for a bike ride.

I want to think this time will be different. I want to make it work. I want to know that I can do this. I know not everyone has $10 each week to through at a group of middle aged women who say things like, "I'm so glad you made the decision to be here," and "We are not on a diet, we are making lifestyle changes." But for me and where I am in my life right now, this is what I need.

Weight: 221.2 lbs.
Goal: 170 lbs.

Lent

2009-02-24T13:54:00.002-05:00

This is a post from the other blog I have with some friends about weight loss and healthy lifestyle changes. I thought my other readers might be interested in it as well. Enjoy!

Well, it's that time of year again. Lent. Tomorrow is Ash Wednesday and the tradition is you give something up that makes you think about what all Jesus gave up for us. While in the past I've given up candy, meat, soda, etc, I've ended up gorging myself on Easter with whatever I've given up. This year I want a new approach. I want to make a lifestyle change. I'm going to do this through my diet. I've been researching the Mediterranean diet. During Lent I'm going to focus on eating more fruit and veggies, enjoying a glass of wine more often, and walking more. The Mediterranean diet is a "whole-life approach." Here is an interesting description I found in my research.

"The Mediterranean diet is more than just a diet -- it's a lifestyle," Eve Adamson concludes. "Finding fulfillment in exercise, the outdoors, and nurturing relationships -- all part of living Mediterranean style -- will help prevent you falling back into unhealthy habits. It's the most pleasurable way of eating and living I can imagine."

I am going to ride my bike more, hopefully to work a few days a week (when the weather warms up again). I am going to walk more. Around our neighborhood is one mile, and there are so many wonderful parks and paths around here.

Hopefully this will be a another healthy lifestyle change and not just for the season of Lent.

Go ride your bike!

2009-02-10T20:11:00.005-05:00

I did! And it was fun! Here's a map of my hour ride from this afternoon. This feature is so cool! Hope you are being active in this great weather!

Making History

2009-01-20T16:21:00.004-05:00

I am so proud to be an American today. The fact that Obama is president shows how far our country has come. Most of all, I'm impressed at how the rest of the world views this. Countries in Europe have taken a look at their own racial issues and are changing things for the better. So many countries are excited for us and the political future. I'm hopefully for my future children.

This is also the first time in history when anyone can document this moment with a photograph. I heard about this on NPR and think it's pretty amazing.

That's a steal!

2009-01-17T20:22:00.003-05:00

The hubby and I are getting very excited about moving into our new house! We close on Friday morning and have a "move in party" planned for Saturday (by move in party, we mean painting, installing, cleaning party). Today we went to two Home Depots to buy blinds. We also picked up painting supplies and a mail box. There's a lot of things to get for a new construction home. At the end of the day we hit the Pottery Barn Outlet for some sheets and things. We walked out with new sheets, some pillow shams, a new comfort and duvet cover for $250!!! Now that's a steal!

New Beginnings

2009-01-02T21:36:00.002-05:00

Today was the first day of my new job, Director of Youth and Family Ministries at Grace Lutheran Church. I've set up my office, I prepared for the first youth meeting on Sunday, and met the ladies who put the bulletins together on Fridays. It was a wonderful first day of work in a new year.

I've also started the year off right with some good eats and exercise. My weight loss blog has been switched up a bit. Two of my closest friends (in two very different parts of the country) also want to lose some weight and get healthy this year. We are all going to contribute to the blog. It's a way for us to stay in touch and motivate each other. Here's the new address. I hope you will find it as helpful as we will.

Life is mighty fine in 2009!

2009-01-01T21:47:00.004-05:00

It's weird that it's a new year. I guess living in temp housing and not having a job (which changes tomorrow) has made me feel a little out of sorts. But we started the new year off right! The Hubie and I spent the evening with our beautiful godson and his parents. We had a wonderful dinner and stayed up to ring in the new year. Although, we must be getting old because we all wanted to go to bed around 10pm. This morning I woke up to the Hubie bringing in that bundle of joy, known as our godson. We read books and played all morning. The BFF made a wonderful brunch, including french toast with homemade bread! We all had a wonderful time and enjoyed ringing in the new year with people we love.

Happy New Year!!!

Shopping to a better world

2008-12-21T19:11:00.003-05:00

This weekend the huby and I went to Asheville for a holiday party and to visit with some old friends. While we were walking around downtown we found the best book, The Better World Shopping Guide. It's a great little book that lets you know what companies and corporations are the best to buy from based on how they run overall, treat their workers and the environment, and their social justice ideas. The book is broken down into different products such as ice cream, baby care, clothing, cleaning, etc. Use your money to vote with! Shop your way to a better world! They also have a website.

Weight Loss Journey

2008-12-04T10:59:00.003-05:00

I have gained quite a bit of weight over the past few months in anticipation of the move. Not exercising and not eating right have let the pounds just creep right on. Now that I'm somewhat settled, I've started working out and eating better. I've also started a blog to journey my weight loss. If you want to follow along, here is the site.

The Move

2008-11-29T22:18:00.004-05:00

Well, we're here. We made it to the South. All our stuff was packed up and in storage for the next few months... including all my underwear and socks! That's right, nothing goes perfectly. I forgot to set aside all my unmentionables. But if that's the only thing that got packed, I think I'll be ok.

I took I-95 down and it's the last time! It was so full of traffic and has way more tolls than 81! Ugh! But it will be the last time. It all still feels like a vacation to me. Like we are just staying for the holidays and then we'll go back to Philly.

For the month of December I'm not working. The Hubie starts his new job on Monday and I don't start until January. My mom asked me what I was going to do during December and I told her, "Lose the 20 pounds I gained in September, October, and November!" I know I probably wont lose all of it in a month, especially with Christmas, but I can get a good start. After church tomorrow we are going to sign up at the YMCA. That's the thing I need the most, exercise! So we are getting back on track tomorrow. The Y also has a triathlon training program, so I'm going to sign up for that too. Whenever I'm have something to train for, I always do better.

I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving. We did. We were able to visit with both of our families and are thankful to be "home."

Christmas comes early 'round these parts!

2008-11-16T14:49:00.004-05:00

In more ways than one! Last week I was down in SC for one last interview and I know can officially say I have a job. Due to the fact it's a church job, there are a few more "official" hoops to jump through (a.k.a. a council meeting) but it's pretty much a done deal.

We also put a contract on a house last week and they accepted it!!! We are so excited and just keeping our fingers crossed our financing goes through since no one has bought our house here in Philly yet. (Anyone need a lovely twin in the big city of Philadelphia???)

We also got a new sofa last weekend and it was delivered yesterday. It's very nice and will fit beautifully in our NEW home (hopefully). It's very simple and classic. And Peppers likes to sit on it too.

And the best part... I got my NEW fancy shmancy road bike today!!! It's beeeeeeeeautiful! I love it so much! I want to go for a ride right now!

Well, back to the organizing and packing...

Rock the Vote!

2008-11-04T08:35:00.003-05:00

I did it and you should too! Go VOTE!

Long time, no post.

2008-10-28T11:34:00.007-04:00

Well, the reason why? I've been out of town interviewing. Yup. I had 3 interviews last week in NC and SC and one more coming up. They all went really well and I already have one job offer. The Hubie is down there this week and had a wonderful interview yesterday. He also got an offer when it was all done! He's pretty amazing!!

Here are a few pics of the finished sweater:

It looks a little big in the picture, but after washing and blocking it, it's the right size. Very soft cotton too.

GO PHILLIES!!!

Done!

2008-10-02T12:45:00.003-04:00

At 11:36am today I finished my first sweater! Well, knitting that is. I still need to block it and weave in the ends. But that's nothing compared to all the knitting! I am at work, but will post pics this evening. "What are you doing knitting at work" you might be asking. Well, it's just one of the many joys about a bookstore in the basement on a seminary campus. Just wanted to say... I'm DONE!

Religion and Politics: Two things you do not discuss at a dinner party

2008-09-24T21:55:00.007-04:00

Last night I got a phone call. It was a student doing a survey about the up coming election. As a former student I know how hard it is to get people to participate in things like this, so I obliged. After asking many questions about politics, she started asking about religion. The first question that was asked was if I was an evangelical born-again christian. I of course said a resounding NO. Then she asked if I considered myself catholic or Protestant. I of course said Protestant.

If you know me, you know that I think one of the scariest group of people are the conservative religious right winged people. As mentioned in a previous post, I watched Jesus Camp. This movie follows a few kids who attend the "Kids on Fire School of Ministry." At this camp the kids learn how they are a part of God's army and can "take back America for Christ." They learn that becuase of abortion, half their friends aren't here. What the heck?!?! (Can we say brain washing?)They also go meet Ted Haggard in Colorado, the pastor of New Life Church at the time of filming. You remember Ted Haggard don't you? You know, the guy who condemned homosexuality and was then resigned (or was removed) from leadership at the church due his fun times with sex and drugs. This man had weekly phone calls with President Bush or his advisors. What the heck!? What happened to the separation of church and state?! The pastor at the church now, Brady Boyd, doesn't even have a theological degree. His background is in TV and radio broadcasting. He also has weekly conversations with Bushy.

With all that is happening in our country right now, I'm scared. I'm scared that if McCain/Palin get elected that the conservative religious right will take over the country. No more learning about actual science in schools... it will be "intelligent design." No more being able to choose what you do with your own body women! Even when you are raped! However, you can own your own gun... for protection of course. I'm sorry, but I think a life is a life is a life. And don't even get me started on the LGBT situation! (And don't pull out one or two single verses from the bible and say I'm wrong. I want historical research and a full exegeses of the verse and passage it comes from.)

I have to say I enjoy being an American. And I am a Christian. I love my freedoms. But I don't like the current government. I don't like that the separation line between church and state is becoming very blurred. Once that line is gone, this country is just as bad as any other with religious extremest in charge.

Ok, I'm done.

2008-09-18T10:59:00.004-04:00

Well, it's official. We've listed our house and are moving South. We don't know where exactly. We don't have jobs. But we do have faith. God will provide. She always does.

As I'm sitting in my favorite comfy chair, with a cup of tea and a Mighty Muffin, in my favorite local fair trade coffee shop, I realize there are some great things in this community I'm going to miss. A lot. Here's just a few...

As already stated, local coffee shops. We have 4 in walking distance of our house. I know local coffee shops are all over the place, but in the South they are few and far between. Walking into a place where people know you by name, recommend random drinks because they know your tastes, and care about you is something everyone needs in there life. Especially when it has free Wifi!

Diversity. I'm really going to miss living in a community where "all just get along!" Literally. No joke! I'm not saying we don't have our differences and arguments here and there, but everyone is accepted and welcomed, no matter what color of skin you have, your sexuality, political views, or religious beliefs. Mount Airy is truly a wonderfully diverse community.

The Tangled Web, my local knitting store. I will miss the women who work there, especially my friend Diana. She has taught me so much! I have grown as a knitter so much thanks to her. I will miss walking in their shop and hearing a friendly "Hello Virginia!" I will miss touching and feeling all their fiber goodies. I will miss their classes. I will miss learning the local gossip of people I don't even know. Knit on ladies! Knit on!

I will miss Weaver's Way Co-op. OMG, I will miss this place!!! I will miss the local veggies from the garden, the random vegan options that make you wonder if it's even food, and the fact that we are partial owners. I will miss being able to sale my jewelry there and being able to call myself a local artisan. I will even miss how small the space is and how it's always crowed. I will miss being able to make choices in buying food that are local, organic, local and organic, and are just over all better for the environment and my body.

And here are some of the minor things I will miss...
being able to walk to work
being able to drop my dry cleaning off as I walk to work
being able to pick up a bottle of wine as I walk home from work
Wawa
Bumble Beads
Fabrics on the Hill
local ethnic cuisine
The Big Blue Marble (local liberal bookstore)
Delasondra's chicken cheese stakes
all the flowers I've planted

Both the Hubie and I know that we are making the right choice to move South, despite the fact we don't have jobs yet. It will take quite sometime to get the house sold, buy a new house, etc. So we aren't too worried... yet. We've got our resumes out there. So keep us in your prayers as we make this move back "home."

Totally Looks Like...

2008-09-11T23:10:00.013-04:00

And my favorite...

I'm offically a widow...

2008-09-04T19:21:00.010-04:00

a football widow that is. Tonight is the NFL kickoff season. While the Hubie has taken over the TV and has his laptop set to show how his fantasy football team, I am updating my blog and planning on doing some major knitting. I might even take a bubbly bath with a glass of wine... or two.

So here's the update...

This past weekend my friend Becky came to visit. It was wonderful to see her and catch up. It's been about two years since we've seen each other... two years too long. Friday we walked about the Hill. Saturday we went to REI and took Michael to the urgent care (more in a few). Sunday we went to church and spent the afternoon lounging around watching Sex and the City, drinking mudslides, knitting and stitching. Monday we went to the Jersey shore (AKA the beach as we say in the South). We had a great time! We started in Cape May (cute little town) and worked our way up to Atlantic City (very carnival like). I gambled for the first time (and didn't really like it... it got boring after a few minutes). We also watched some interesting movies. We rented Stop-Loss, 21, Jesus Camp, and Jesus of Montreal. All were very interesting and I highly recommend all of them. Stop-Loss is about soldiers from Texas who just got back from Afghanistan and are trying to get out, but are being sent back despite what they were told. Heartbreaking, but really happening. 21 is about the college kids who count cards. Fun flick! Jesus Camp is just down right scary! It's a documentary about kids who are basically being brainwashed by the mega fundamentalist churches to believe that Bush is God's BFF, they are right and everyone else (other religions are wrong), and that abortion killed their friends (who weren't even born yet). Jesus of Montreal is a French movie about actors who preform the Passion play and start to take on the character's personalities as their own. It was a great weekend and I really enjoyed spending time with my rosa chica. Here's a few pics from the shore:

So the Hubie pulled some muscle in his foot and it's really been bothering him. The pain got so bad that we took him to the urgent care on Saturday. The doc took some x-rays and determined it wasn't a broken bone or anything and gave him some pain meds. He stayed home on Tuesday and went to a foot doc specialist who said to take it easy and get some insoles... and no more running for a while. Poor little gimpy.

Here's the summer update on my summer goals:

Reading-

Lamb by Christopher Moore

The Tenth Circle by Jodi Picoult

Sold by Patricia McCormick

The Red Tent by Anita Diamant

Pretties by Scott Westerfeld

Specials by Scott Westerfeld

Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert

So I only got 7 read, but they were all really nice reads. The latest book Eat, Pray, Love was wonderful. I'm not crazy about it like some people (aka Oprah fans this past week), but I still enjoyed. I have two more reads I'm really excited about, Animal Mineral Miracle and Last Child in the Woods. I'll let you know what I choose.

Knitting-

I finished my linen shawl and started a sweater, a hat, some socks, and a scarf. All are gifts except the sweater (which I'm almost finished with thanks to the afternoon of Sex and the City and mudslides with Becky)! Here are a few fun pics:

Biking-

I completed my tri and really enjoyed it. I did a few more bike trips since then and also talked the Hubie (like it was that hard) into us buying road bikes. It was a pretty pricey investment, but I really think it will be a great one. We really enjoy biking and have signed up for a few bike rides and looked into a few biking clubs.

Education of...

Wine- really enjoying learning more and more about different kinds, what the pair well with, etc. But I'm no wino yet.

Gardening- you really have to water EVERYDAY or your plants die. We are still getting some yummy tomatoes, and our mums are huge! Going to plant some pretty pansies in the baskets soon (as my summer basket flowers have died... twice).

Crafting- my wire working class is coming up this month and I sold a lot of stuff at Weaver's Way, need to make some more and get it over there. Otherwise I've been knitting up a storm lately.

Over all it was a great summer with ups and downs. Job wise I'm still in limbo. I had one job turn me down and have interviews for two others coming up. One of them might be sending us "home"... and that's all I'll say about that.

Now, about that bubble bath....

Happy Birthday to the Hubie!

2008-08-24T21:08:00.007-04:00

Today is the Hubie's birthday. He's the big 32! Although he still got carded at the beer tent today (at the Livestrong run/ride). We had a great time! Here's a few pics:

Here we are enjoying the free "sports" drinks, yum!

Happy Birthday Hubie!!!

Rainy Sunday

2008-08-10T21:20:00.005-04:00

The past few days weather has been BEAUTIFUL! The Hubie and I had planned to go bike ridding after church, but when we came out there were ominous clouds all above. We ended up running a few errands and having a lunch out. So what does one do on a rainy Sunday afternoon? Well, I put on some comfy pants, flipped on the Olympics and got to work. I organized all of my yarn stash and most projects on ravelry and pictures on flicker. I ended up getting a pro account because you have to have flicker to put pics on ravelry, and it's a lot easier to organize everything.
I got the new Interweave Knits mag in the mail this week and found the most fabulous thing to knit... a PEA COAT! But it's made to be worn like sweater. Here's a swatch I knitted up.
This weather is amazing! It's been in the 60's today and feels like we should be cooking up a pumpkin pie and getting ready to pull out big comfy sweaters. I love this kind of weather, and it's only August! Makes me want to knit a big ol' comfy sweater!

I so ROX!!!

2008-08-05T10:11:00.009-04:00

I did it! I completed a triathlon and under 3 hours! My time was 2:48:38 and came in at 1120 out of 1163 finishers. I think that's pretty darn good for my first time. I am defiantly going to sign up for it again and maybe a few others. I hear Danskin has a really nice one in NJ, right out side of NYC. I also am majorly hooked on biking now. So much so I want a fancy road bike. Maybe Santa will bring me one for Christmas (hint hint). It was a lot of fun and everyone was so supportive. Here's a few pics the Hubie took. She swims. She rides. She runs. She ROX!

Getting my numbers...

Setting up my transition station...

All the bikes ready to go...Transition between swimming and riding...Look! I'm actually running... towards the finish line!

Who I am

2008-08-05T09:54:00.000-04:00

Check out Wordle to create your own!

Is there some wiggle room here???

2008-07-31T11:29:00.004-04:00

This is an email I received from a friend. As a seminary graduate, I have discussed this laws in classes. This is a prime example of why we should study the Bible with a historical lens as well as a spiritual lens, as well as remember that it was written by humans thousands of years ago. I find this very funny and hope you will too. Enjoy!

Dr. Laura Schlessinger is a radio personality who dispenses advice to people who call in to her radio show. Recently, she said that, as an observant Orthodox Jew, homosexuality is an abomination according to Leviticus 18:22 and cannot be condoned under any circumstance. The following is an open letter to Dr. Laura penned by an east coast resident, which was posted on the Internet. It's funny, as well as informative:

Dear Dr. Laura:

Thank you for doing so much to educate people regarding God's Law. I have learned a great deal from your show, and try to share that knowledge with as many people as I can. When someone tries to defend the homosexual lifestyle, for example, I simply remind them that Leviticus18:22 clearly states it to be an abomination. End of debate. I do need some advice from you, however, regarding some of the other specific laws and how to follow them:

1. When I burn a bull on the altar as a sacrifice, I know it creates a pleasing odor for the Lord - Lev.1:9. The problem is my neighbors. They claim the odor is not pleasing to them. Should I smite them?

2. I would like to sell my daughter into slavery, as sanctioned in Exodus 21:7. In this day and age, what do you think would be fair price for her?

3. I know that I am allowed no contact with a woman while she is in her period of menstrual uncleanliness - Lev.15:19- 24. The problem is, how do I tell? I have tried asking, but most women take offense.

4. Lev. 25:44 states that I may indeed possess slaves, both male and female, provided they are purchased from neighboring nations. A friend of mine claims that this applies to Mexicans, but not Canadians. Can you clarify? Why can't I own Canadians?

5. I have a neighbor who insists on working on the Sabbath.Exodus 35:2 clearly states he should be put to death. Am I morally obligated to kill him myself?

6. A friend of mine feels that even though eating shellfish is an abomination - Lev. 11:10, it is a lesser abomination than homosexuality. I don't agree. Can you settle this?

7. Lev. 21:20 states that I may not approach the altar of God if I have a defect in my sight. I have to admit that I wear reading glasses. Does my vision have to be 20/20, or is there some wiggle room here?

8. Most of my male friends get their hair trimmed, including the hair around their temples, even though this is expressly forbidden by Lev. 19:27. How should they die?

9. I know from Lev. 11:6-8 that touching the skin of a dead pig makes me unclean, but may I still play football if I wear gloves?

10. My uncle has a farm. He violates Lev. 19:19 by planting two different crops in the same field, as does his wife by wearing garments made of two different kinds of thread (cotton/polyester blend). He also tends to curse and blaspheme a lot. Is it really necessary that we go to all the trouble of getting the whole town together to stone them? -Lev.24:10-16. Couldn't we just burn them to death at a private family affair like we do with people who sleep with their in-laws? (Lev. 20:14)

I know you have studied these things extensively, so I am confident you can help. Thank you again for reminding us that God's word is eternal and unchanging.

Your devoted fan.

Doing things the Old Fashioned Way

2008-07-17T11:14:00.003-04:00

A few days ago I picked a zucchini from our garden. It was as long as my fore arm. I told the Hubie not to cook it because I wanted to make muffins out of it. So last night I did! I looked through my recipe books and didn't really find a recipe that excited me. So I did what I always do in these cases... I made one up! And it turned out really good! Here's the recipe:

1 cup white flour

1/2 cup whole wheat flour

1/4 cup ground flax seed meal

pinch of salt (about 1/2 teaspoon)

pinch of baking soda (about 1/2 teaspoon)

a few shakes of cinnamon (about 1 to 2 teaspoons)

a few shakes of nutmeg (about 1 to 2 teaspoons)

1 cup sugar

1 large grated zucchini (squeeze the water out, about 1 cup)

1 egg

1/4 cup oil

In a large bowl mix the first group of ingredients together. Set aside. In a medium bowl mix the second group of ingredients together. Pour ingredients from second bowl into first bowl and mix together. Add walnuts, chocolate chips, grated carrot etc. if you wish. Pour into muffin pan that has been greased or bread pan that has been greased and lightly floured. Cook at 350 degrees till lightly brown. Makes a light over a dozen muffins or one loaf of bread.

To add that homemade, old fashioned touch...

-Hand grate the zucchini! That's right, I don't have a food processor, so I hand grated that bad boy. No wonder our grandmothers had strong arms!

-Don't measure... much. For the basics I measured (flour, sugar, etc.). But for the fun part, the spices, I just shook the jar till it was as much as I wanted.

-Don't use a timer. Guesstimate how much time they need to cook. For me this is out of pure laziness because our timer is on the oven and takes awhile to push how much time you want. But when it smells like it's done, it probably is!

I hope you will enjoy these muffins as much as the Hubie and I do. Remember to add that special touch of old fashioned fun and homemade goodness to your life. Enjoy!

*Not actual muffins!

Summer Update

2008-07-16T12:36:00.003-04:00

Well, it's the middle of summer and I wanted to update you on my summer goals.

Reading: I want to read 8 books this summer.

So far I've read...
Lamb by Christopher Moore
The Tenth Circle by Jodi Picoult
Sold by Patricia McCormick
The Red Tent by Anita Diamant

I'm in the middle of Pretties by Scott Westerfeld. It's a young adult book and the second in a trilogy (but a forth book just came out, so I guess its not a trilogy anymore). It takes place in the future and has some very interesting issues, such as cliques and following the crowd.

Knitting: I want to complete my linen shawl this summer, by the last day in August.

I am half way through the second ball of yarn on this project. It takes three balls to complete the shawl, so I'm well on my way. I have to admit that I probably be placing this project aside to work on a pray shawl for a friend who has cancer. I bought some lovely fair trade banana and recycled silk yarn that is a shinny turquoise color. I also have some fair trade recycled silk that is rainbow colored. I'm thinking of using one or the other or mixing the two together. Any thoughts?

Biking (and other active activities): Biking wise, I want to try to bike to church at lest twice a month through September, as mentioned in my last post. Other activities including training for a triathlon on August 3.

So far we've biked to church twice this summer. We were set back by my stepping on a nail on a Sunday morning and by our camping trip. But we did bike on the camping trip. Triathlon wise, I'm still training. We try to swim one to two times a week, and bike or run the other days with a day of rest. I'm still not sure about this whole running thing. I think by the time I've finished swimming and biking, I'll be good if I can even walk the 5k! I've also added working out with The Firm. You know, the step aerobics with weights that was founded in Cola, SC. It's helped to improve my strength and I feel a little firmer. The only thing is I have to place the steps just right so my head will go between the rafters, and not hit them (I work out in our low ceiling basement).

Education:

Wine- We took a wine tasting class for dummies and had so much fun! We are taking another class this coming weekend at the same vineyard that pairs wine and chocolate. Friends are also going to join us for this class. It's fun learning the different types of wines and how to taste/drink wine properly.

Gardening- I still need to show you pictures of my beautiful plants! We have huge squash plants and a Roma tomato plant. We are going to have so much we wont know what to do with. It will be Iron Chef America with squash! I've also added some more herbs and am hoping to cut and dry some.

Crafting- I've sold some more jewelry to Weaver's Way, our Co-op. I've also signed up for a metal working class. I have plans to sew up some things soon. Pics to come.

That's what I've been up too. What are you in the middle of this summer?

Friday Five: Summer Camp

2008-07-11T20:21:00.004-04:00

1. Did you go to sleep away camp, or day camp, as a child? Wish you could? Or sometimes wish you hadn't?

I went to two different camps when I was child, both were sleep away. One was Camp Occanichie, a girl scout camp in the mountains of North Carolina. The other was Lutheridge, a Lutheran camp also in the mountains of North Carolina. I also worked 3 summers at Lutheridge in college and got married there.

2. How about camping out? Dream vacation, nightmare, or somewhere in between?

I LOVE camping out! It is a dream vacation (when it isn't raining) and there's fun things to do (hiking, biking, swimming, and of course eating).

3. Have you ever worked as a camp counselor, or been to a camp for your denomination for either work or pleasure?

Like I said, I worked as a camp councelor for 3 summers. One of those summers was as an Outdoor Adventure Program councelor. We would hike the AT, white water canoe, climb the challenge tower, and more. I also was a care leader for an OAP group last summer with a friend. We hung out as volunteer adults with the kids and did Bible study for them.

4. Most dramatic memory of camp, or camping out?

I have two. The first one is when I was an OAP coucelor I was out with a group on the AT. We had reached out stopping point and set up camp. When one of the kids was going to pee, she saw something run away from her. She thought it was a mountain lion and made a huge ordeal out of it. Later we heard some scratching on our tent, and I told her it was the mountain lion coming to get her. It was a deer. The other would be when I met my hubby. He and a friend were care leaders for our outpost middle school group. The whole week was tons of fun and the kids were great. At the end of the week, after all the campers had gone home, I went to lunch with a few other councelors. I told them that I had met my future hubby. They all laughed because usually care leaders are fat old pastors and their wife. But I thought to myself, "maybe... naw. It'll never happen." And laughed right along with them. What do ya know, we are now married!!!

5. What is your favorite camp song or songs? Bonus points if you link to a recording or video.

Blind Man (Lutherock style)

Light the Fire

One Tin Solder

Dance With Me

SwapTree

2008-07-10T16:18:00.004-04:00

Let me tell you about an amazing site I found. Why is it so amazing you ask? Because it promotes environmental friendliness. SwapTree is a cool site that lets you see what other people have to give away and helps you give away things you have in exchange. Here's the idea: you put what you want to get rid of on the site, others do the same. SwapTree helps match up people who want things you want with things they have. Then you pay for the postage to send it to them and they do the same for you. It's only for books, CDs and DVDs. And it totally works! I've made my first trade and already received the book. Best of all... it's all free!!! Well, except for the shipping. Instead of giving into the consumer world we live in and producing more stuff, swap with someone! I know some people like to hold on to books, and I have to say, there are a few I just wont let go. But come on, if you've read that cheap paperback you got on sale, pass it on! It's still readable. (Same goes for DVDs and CDs, but I'm more of a book person.) Do something good for the environment, join SwapTree!

Backpackers go Camping

2008-07-09T22:38:00.009-04:00

The hubby and I went camping over 4th of July. We realized that we take a heck of a lot of stuff when we are camping compared to when we are backpacking. Why? Because we can! Other than the weather, we had a great time. Here's a few pics!

Our home away from home:

What's camping without SMORES!Happy 4th of July! We made home-made ice cream, crank style!

And ate some watermelon.This is how we entertained ourselves at night, playing with the camera and campfire.Overall it was fun. We got some great biking in (when it wasn't raining) and found a movie theatre and saw movies for $2 each! What a steal! We did get to go swimming, the last evening we were there. Basically it didn't rain the first evening and the last evening. Other than that... rain. We still had a great time and enjoyed being in the woods.

Faves of the moment!

2008-06-30T22:11:00.003-04:00

Thanks for the comments on what I should read next. Friends highly suggested The Red Tent, so I'll start it tomorrow at work when I get board (around 9:30am).

So here are a few things I'm really into at the moment:

Speaking your mind! I watched the documentary on the Dixie Chicks and the cause and affects of what Natalie said about the president while on tour in London. (To be exact, she said, "I'm ashamed that the president is from Texas.") This is a very interesting documentary about our current events. She was only ahead of her time. Look around now and who's rooting for the pres? Um.... was that crickets I heard? I've always loved the bluegrassy sound and sassy lyrics of the chicks. Now I love them even more!

Dansko... Outlet that is! That's right! Get the same amazing shoes for half the price! My mama was in town for work and after she was done we drove out to the country and had a little retail therapy. We lucked out big time! Today was the opening of the new outlet store... the BIGGER outlet store. I found some major cute shoes!! Way too many!! One word: RED!

Job Hunting. Yah, not really that exciting. But it is nice when friends in high places recommend you for amazing job opportunities. Like "Director for Student Ministries" at the biggest Lutheran church this side of the Mississippi, and it's right here in the South Eastern PA area. I'll let you know how the interview goes!

Wine and Chocolate. 'Nuff said.

New Locations. The Tangled Web, my LYS (local yarn store) moved locations (down the street a bit) into a bigger store. It's amazing! Two floors... one for yarn yummies and the other for classes and lounge knitting. It's also really fun to walk in and hear your name with a happy welcome... or it could be a sign I spend too much time and money in there. Either way, it still warms my heart (and hands and head and neck and feet...) Love the new store ladies!

I'm a good wify!

2008-06-28T11:38:00.001-04:00

As a 1930s wife, I am
Superior

Take the test!

Just call me Betty Homemaker!

Friday Five: Summer Reading

2008-06-27T13:46:00.005-04:00

1) Do you think of summer as a particularly good season for reading? Why or why not?

I think it is the best time for reading! Since I've been in school all my life, summer is the time I get to read what I want to read. However, now that I'm done with school I guess I can read what I want when I want all the time!

2) Have you ever fallen asleep reading on the beach?

YES!!! Many a time!!!

3) Can you recall a favorite childhood book read in the summertime?

I really enjoyed some of the books I had to read for high school... we had a summer reading list. I loved the Babysitter's Club books too!

4) Do you have a favorite genre for light or relaxing reading?

I love to read young adult novels. I like to see what tweens and teens are reading and try to keep up with their interests since I like working with that age group. Although, most of these books are not light or relaxing by any means. I also like Nicholas Sparks books for a light read.

5) What is the next book on your reading list?

Well, since I just finished a book I'm deciding between The Red Tent and one a friend just lent to me. I'll also take any suggestions.

Another good book...

2008-06-24T21:37:00.007-04:00

I finished another good book today. Sold is about a girl from Nepal who is sold into prostitution by her step-father. The story follows her journey from her mountain village through to the city where she is to work to her freedom. It is based on conversations between the author and survivors of the red light district in Calcutta. It is written in journal style and a quick read. This book is found in the young adult section. I highly recommend this book.

In other news...

Sunday morning I stepped on a nail that was sticking up in our hardwood floors. So needless to say, my training has been low key the past few days. And I notice that I forgot to post the website to the triathlon. Here it is!

I also applied for my first REAL job today. By real I mean having a salary that would keep me off food stamps. Please pray for me and this job. I really, really, really, really, really want it!!!

Hope everyone is having a great summer!

Summer 2008 Goals

2008-06-16T14:06:00.004-04:00

I've been meaning to post about what my goals are for this summer for a while. Some I've gotten a good head start on. Others, not so much. So here they are:

Reading: I want to read 8 books this summer. Last summer I read 5 books. I've already finished 3 on my list, only 5 more to go! Maybe I'll get in more than 8.

Knitting: I want to complete my linen shawl this summer, by the last day in August. This is my main knitting goal, hopefully I wont get distracted by some socks or other UFO's.

Biking (and other active activities): Michael and I got into biking last summer. He got me a nice new comfort bike for my graduation this year. Biking wise, I want to try to bike to church at lest twice a month through September, as mentioned in my last post. Other activities including training for a triathlon on August 3. You read right, a triathlon: Swimming, biking, and running. Check out the website here. My goal is to complete the thing. If it goes well, next year maybe I'll try to beat my time or something.

Education: Even though I've graduated, I want to further my education on things I have an interest in. Things such as wine (we took the wine tasting for dummies class and had a blast), gardening (I need to show you pics of my beautiful plants), crafting (beading and sewing are what I'm focusing on right now... I took a wire working class and hope to take a fringe bracelet class next month).

Those are my summer time fun goals. What are you doing this summer?